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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Does this mean i'm finally over my ex?I've stopped thinking about him as much as I used to, which was a lot! I can think about our memories and him and i don't tear up or feel sad, but just think of how it was a happy point in my life. I don't find myself caring what he's doing these days, if he misses me, has feelings for me or such.. Which used to play on mind mind constantly. But now when i think of him, it's strange but i don't feel anything or even care about him anymore! I don't even read our old texts, check his facebook or talk about him to anyone now...Am i being naive, or does this mean i've finally moved on after so long of trying!!?
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male
reader, MKP +, writes (4 March 2013):
Sounds like you went through an emotional time, yes I would say by the sound of it you are.If you feel better by asking the question and receiving positive feedback, then well done you. Live life.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 February 2013):
I think that asking what your feelings mean is not the same as saying I'm not sure I'm over. I think the OP is just verifying that if she feels the way she is it's an indication that she's over him.
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (27 February 2013):
The opposite of love is indifference. However, the fact you have to ask says to me you're not over him completely. You're getting there and it just take time. If I see another post in a months time saying "how about now? Am I over my ex?" then the answer is still no, not completely.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (26 February 2013):
Hi,
Yes I believe you are. Now delete and block everything that you have of him. Thanks.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 February 2013):
yep your over him!
the opposite of love is not hate
the opposite of love is ambivalence...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): If you was genuinely over him, you wouldnt have to ask.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (26 February 2013):
It could mean you are now getting used to life without him. you are probably over the worst. I think if you was 100% over him, you would not be asking this, because you woul not be thinking about it.
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