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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...

How do I tell my ex I miss his company?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We both decided to move on. But after on msn it got out of hand and he said he never wanted to speak to me again. After that he blocked me. A month later he unblocked me and said "This is silly I want to be ...

Is it okay to see a separated man or should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Is it ok to see a separated man? They are not divorced but looking into getting divorced, he keeps asking me out, says its over, he went back to her a second time for 9 months, they had counselling too, but says he is no longer in love with h...

Ex will not give me permission to take our child away. Should I just do it anyways?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I want to take my child away for a few months but Ex will not give permission. Should I just go and face the consciences when I get back? We are seperated but not legally. He is on the birth certificate. If anyone has been in this situation...

My man is defensive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - my boyfriend i have been together for two years now and we just recently just moved in everything is good.i have problem with hem every time i ask hem why he gets so defensive whenever i ask somthing about hes exwife he gets realy mad he doesnt want ...

2 years together. 3 years since she left me... Why can't I fully move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Hi all, my first love has come back to haunt me again. It's coming up to the time of year where me and her first met face to face after talking over the internet and falling in love. We met in her hometown on the 10th of July, 5 years ago this y...

Girl thing gone bad? But why? Where do I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my, as of last week, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. I've been in bad relationships and understand most problems. I'm a very nice guy...and everyone says too nice...bringing her flowers just casue its ...

Why did my ex treat me so badly but he's so good to his new g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend was very abusive to me. In ways you would never want to imagine. I was such a great girlfriend ifelt like tho. I did everything for him too. Well now he has a new girlfriend and has never even threatened to do anything to her (not ...

I love her but I think she still loves her ex.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - im 15 and i know this girl since two years now. its been a while since her last boyfriend, around 5 months, (and way more handsome than me...) so i wanna try myself. the thing is, this girl likes to put on msn everything that happens on her love ...

How should I sound if we are just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I ...

Will I get a 3rd chance with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - hey, i have a problem with my ex.....We started our relationship april 2009...we both fell in love in a very short time...but i broke up with her over the summer because i was a jerk i made up a lie and we broke up i told her i was leaving back to ...

He won't let go of his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - What to do about a b/f that won't let go of his "ex"? I feel like I'm always living in her shadow, a continual ghost who still walks amongst us and he gets mad when I make references to her (usually during a fight) yet I know it's because I see the ...

He's separated but wants to know about her, should it concern me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My live-in boyfriend is separated but not divorced. He speaks to his daughter daily and he sometimes asks to his daughter what his wife is doing and where she is and usually ends the conversation with, tell her I said "goodnight". Does this mean ...

My ex cut out all contact, but I want him back in my life, either as friend or boyfriend. How to get in touch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - It is my ex-boyfriend's birthday in a couple of days and part of me wants to wish him a happy birthday but I just cannot decide what to do because we aren't in contact at all. Part of me wants to get back together with him, but another part of me ...

My husband spoiled his ex'es, and now I have to help pay the debts! Should I ask his mom for financial help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My husband and I are in dire financial straits. My husband has a big fault; he is too generous. It will most definitely help him get into heaven but it's not helping much here......right now. He was took to the cleaners by an ex wife and then a ...

His ex is forcing him to chose between his son or me and now he isn't contacting me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I met a guy off a very well known dating site and we hit it off straight away, we became very close in three weeks to the point where we even told each other we loved each other, I know silly really when we hadn't even met before ...

He doesn't understand why I was upset .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Yesterday was our one year anniversary. We had a busy night running his kids around. Even though it was late, he still wanted to take me to a nice dinner. Instead of it being ourselves, it was us, his teenage daughter and teenage son ... and one ...

She is immature and controlling and I don't know if I want to be with her anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I started dating this girl about 6 months ago, not long after we started dating I found out she had a boyfriend. She said it was nothing serious and she was just waiting on the right time before she dumped him. I thought that was okay. But then she ...

Poll: Best sex - was it with an ex or current partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - So ladies...taking a poll here cuz I'm curious. When it comes to the best sex you've had, was it with your current (final) partner or with a previous partner? By "best", I mean the most sexually satisfying or intense (most mind blowing, most ...

Torn between three men but I only want one, but which one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hie here I have a problem caught in three guys.Something I brought on meself.I left my boyfriend in my home country nw its been two years without seeing each other.there was a break of communication for a period of 7 months bt now we are okay.I was ...

Do you think I should try to regain the friendship with my ex without telling my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - What do you consider cheating? I'm sure this is a common question but I have a particular situation in mind, and I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend in the slightest. We've been together for 14 months, and are completely in love. Recently, ...

Why do I miss my ex yet still I don't have any feelings for him sexually?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - its been 4 years with him i love him but but i dont have sexual feelings for him so i broke up with him,now i missed him a lot but not sexually.what do you think my problem is?i need help!!!!!!!!!...

Why did my ex decide to help us move in together? I don't understand why he wanted to insert himself into my life like that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My last ex boyfriend (I ended things, if it matters) and my current boyfriend work together, and although they know each other quite well, they are not anywhere near friends. This past weekend, I moved in with my current boyfriend, and he asked some ...

Still have feelings for my ex after the break

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29 June 2010 (M) - Hello my name is Vincent and I need some advice on something 2 years ago me and this girl alexis had a strong relationship we used to go out we kissed laugh did everything with eachother but her mom didnt want me and her to be together so alexis ...

She said I smother her!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm really really confused right now, and kind of sad. I havent cried in over 2 years but I really feel broken right now. I'm kind of friends with my ex-girlfriend right now. She has a lot going on in her life (eating disorders, e...

My wife is suddenly associating with her ex. I can't stand him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - All marriages have their troubles. All of a sudden, my wife has started talking to her ex again. She knows I can't stand him. She has gone out with him and his friends on several occasions lately. She claims it's always a group and she's never ...

I treated my ex like crap and I want to tell her I'm sorry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I'm not proud of what I've done and I just want to make it right but I don't know how. Please could anyone help? A couple of years ago I was seeing a woman who I was serious about, took her on holiday with my son and introduced her to all my ...

Does my ex want me back or should I give it a shot with the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he had feelings for another girl about three months ago but we stayed as friends. I recently started talking to this guy that i really like a lot. I told me ex about this guy and he got really mad and ...

Help! I don't think I'm as good as his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I cant help but compare myself to my boyfriends ex girlfriend. And he can tell whats going on and we keep growing apart. he says i dont need to amount to her. but i want to be better than she was. she is beautiful and has a great personality... i ...

I don't get it! Does he only want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I recently got divorce and new to the dating scene. I met this guy, who is 44, (Iam 48), and his never been married. He used to work with me. But when we worked together we used to flirt with each other but never talked. Once he left I sent an ...

Should I date another guy to help me get over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - do you think i should find someone to help me to get over a guy faster? the guy is doing his own thing, what should i do? plz help...

Are all guys superficial?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I'm 17 this year; I'm fat but not disgustingly obese, don't have a pretty face and very self-conscious deep down. The thing is, I'm very confident and most people look at me as the hyper and bubbly one who brightens up everyone's day but inside, I ...

Is he remenissing about his ex girlfriends?

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27 June 2010 (F) - This may sound like a silly question and I know it's not a big deal, but I found that my boyfriend's been looking at loads of pictures of his ex's on facebook, quite frequantly. He once told me how he misses his ex's and wishes he could talk to them ...

My ex is "unofficially" with another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I had been hooking up whenever I came home from college. We still acted like we were dating, and still said we loved each other. On several occasions he still made mention of how he thinks I'm his soulmate and he's convinced fate ...

Been seeing ex as a friend, but he ditched me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - So I've been seeing my ex as friends on and off on the weekends. we hang out as friends. Anyway the last time i talked to him was 3 days ago. he told me that theres a new restaurant and said lets check it out this weekend. I told him sure i don't ...

She was so horrible, why am I still in love with her?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - Hi all, here's the info... I'm 27 this year, I split up with with my ex nearly 3 years ago, she is the mother of my child who I have a realitivley good relationship with. We got together when I was 18 and we split when I was about 25, loads of ...

Why does he keep pictures of him with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I found pictures of my boyfriend with his ex gf in a drawer. They were romantic pictures of them at a beach. Is he not over her? Does he look back at those times and reflect on them as good times? Why would he keep those pictures though ...

An ex has started to give me a kiss!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

26 June 2010 (?) - My ex has started to kiss me on the lips when saying bye after not doing anything so personal since our divorce 2 years ago when i've really stayed very much out of his way. Recently we bumped into each other several times and he made a deliberate ...

Is it normal for men to think about sex with exes whilst masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - Is it normal for men to think about sex with ex girlfriends whilst wanking? I know this sounds like a silly question, and Godknows how we got into the conversation, but my boyfriend told me that when he wanks he thinks about ex girlfriends ...

Did he message me only because he thought I had gone away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - Hi there.Im feeling really confused. I was on and off with my boyfriend for 2 years. We had some amazing times but also some bad ones. We split up for good in February this year and ended quite badly. It has been nearly 6 months now and I still ...

I want to move on and be happy with someone new, but I don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - How do i move on from my ex? It seems like everytime i do he shows up again. About a month ago after him and i hadn't talked in about 6 months we started texting and talking on the phone everyday and he said his feelings for me and that he woul...

I've lost my faith in men because of him, how can I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - hi, I just broke up with my four years bf, I was in love with this man but it took me a lot of time to really know that he can't give me what I need from this relationship, he only cared about himself...ok, it's gone now and I really need some help ...

In love and hurt. Do I move on? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - So I am 16 years old. And I have already fallen really hard for a guy. We knew each other since we were 13 and 14. Best friends and all. We just told each other last January that we liked each other. That June we started going out. I fell in love ...

How to start fresh with the same person...and a baby due any day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - Im still having the same problem,,, im really trying to rekindle my relationship. I know many of you may tell me to give up because his feelings for me have changed etc etc, but thats not what i want to hear. I want optimistic advice, both my ex ...

Why is my ex starting to kiss me on the mouth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

25 June 2010 (?) - My ex has started to kiss me on the lips when saying bye after not doing anything so personal since our divorce 2 years ago but then doesnt contact me - whats going on? He's still with the ow he went off with almost the minute i left him..........

Why won't he take the next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - So I've finally gotten closer to my guy friend and flirting was so casual that I never noticed he was hinting at me, but he tells me he likes me and thats it. I don't understand him. He calls me babe, we can act like a couple, we constantly flirt, ...

Girlfriend frustrations - any way to fix these things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 June 2010 (M) - I am concerned about my Girlfriend, she seems quite unhappy with her life at the moment, and this refelcts a little on the expectations she has of me to make more money and manage my money better. the story is this: she comes home from work, ...

My best friend who I dated briefly wants me to move in with him despite having a girlfriend, and he has even said he wishes he could have both of us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - EXTREMELY LONG BUT PLEASE READ I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED ! So I was literally dating my ex for less than a month he was my best friend of 3 years. I knew him like the palm of my hand and he knows everything about me. During our friendship he wa...

I want my ex back but I don't know how to go about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I would have been with my boyfriend for four years, this June, except we broke up at the end of March. We were great together and were close with each other's families. He is someone I can say I truly love and am not sure I will ever get over. ...

He sitll has her number. What does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - what does it mean when your boyfriend of 1year and 4 momths still has his ex girlfriends number in his phoe,but say he dont call them...