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writes:My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he had feelings for another girl about three months ago but we stayed as friends. I recently started talking to this guy that i really like a lot. I told me ex about this guy and he got really mad and demanded me back.Is he doing this because he really wants to be with me?if so should i take him back or give it a shot with the new guy?-neptune
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reader, tamara_r +, writes (29 June 2010):
 I have to agree with the 1st answer, Im on somewhat ok friend terms with my ex of 6mo. and he asked and hinted about seeing me before he was gonna leave the area to live closer to the college his changing to. Out of frustration and lack of ppl to talk to at certain times in regards to guy issues, out of desperation and trying to calm my nerves Id vent to my ex as a friend of course. Now I know my ex who Im now friends with definately cares and respects me enough not to ruin a friendship to nothing, but to relate to your dilemma..my ex,s curiosity led to him asking about my feelings towards him now and about geting physical..bascially friends with benefits. Long story short Im not attracted to him now that Ive finally moved on from him. Although ill always care for him I wont just give in to his wants and needs. I told him my concerns on the subject and he openly said hes willing to get anything right now and he has changed a bit ive noticed since everything. He also came to me as being his best comfort. Basically guys whether their genuine or misleading will say anything in anyway to make you reconsider the offer being thrown at you, and in the end get what they want. Your ex leaving you for another girl shows that hes not one to be trusted. Id say carefully weigh the pros and cons and understand that only the person in question can change themself, not you. So be careful, hope this somewhat helped!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 June 2010):
Your ex is a man who you need to cut out of your life. I know what will happen. You'll go back to him, and then end up dumped. You're being played by your ex. He left you for another girl. Why accept that treatment? He won't change. He just wants to have his cake and eat it.
Go with the new guy. Your ex is worthless.
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