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writes: Hi all, here's the info... I'm 27 this year, I split up with with my ex nearly 3 years ago, she is the mother of my child who I have a realitivley good relationship with. We got together when I was 18 and we split when I was about 25, loads of really nasty stuff happened in the last few years we were together, stuff I've seemed guidence for on here in the past. Anyway to cut a long story short it's three years on now and although I have had like four girlfriends one of which lasted 6 months, I can not stop feeling like I'm still in love with her. She has done horrible things, she is now living with one of our very good friends and she's been nothing but vile since we sit but still my feelings toward her haven't changed, I wake up having dreamed about her nearly every day and this is the worst thing, it haunts me, I can't move on from her..... Why not!!!!!!!
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 It was a long relationship, perhaps one of the longest you've had and one of the most probable reasons you can't move on is because you have contact with her and maybe the spiteful comments are the things you play back and can't stop thinking about. Another reason is because you haven't found peace in your relationship. Brutal splits are harder to get over.Maybe thinking about the reasons you split would help you move on and if not I would suggest talking to her about it. Ask her if you can be civil "for the child's sake" if anything but. (:
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