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female
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30-35,
*aiting for an angel
writes:Im still having the same problem,,, im really trying to rekindle my relationship. I know many of you may tell me to give up because his feelings for me have changed etc etc, but thats not what i want to hear. I want optimistic advice, both my ex and I are really trying to make this work since our baby is only a few days from coming. But how and what can i talk about w/ him? how can i make him have a good tine w/ me , very important make him laugh. I know you cant force things but we both have hope, any helpful advice from anyone on how to get to know someone after a previous relationship, how to make someone laugh and enjoy your company, and topics of conversation. Thank you
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (26 June 2010):
Okay I'm not sure how easy this is to understand but I tried it once and it worked.
Before seeing your Ex visualise having a GREAT time with him, laughing Joking and being very happy. Visualise the conversation flowing and feeling very interested and interesting in what you are both saying.
Say over in your head "we are going to have a wonderful time together and feel very happy".
Remove all bad thoughts of disappointment, upset from your mind and only think of the positive.
Give it a go.
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Good Luck x
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