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writes:I cant help but compare myself to my boyfriends ex girlfriend. And he can tell whats going on and we keep growing apart. he says i dont need to amount to her. but i want to be better than she was. she is beautiful and has a great personality... i cant get it out of my head. what do i do? Please help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know, you are both right, but i cant get her out of my head. i met her one day, and she is so beautiful, i feel like i am below her and he just dosent see it yet
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Hello. I hope you dont put your boyfriend off you because you dont feel as good as his ex. That would be such a shame. Hes told you that you dont have to try and be like her, And he obviously likes you a lot and probably wouldnt even want you to be like her. If he liked her that much he would still want to be with her. But he doesnt, he wants to be with you. So just be yourself and dont worry. All the best x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 June 2010):
You are better. He's going out with you, not her. It didn't work out with her, but it is with you. Why would you want to be like an ex that he had? It didn't work out. If you start to be like her, he'll dump you. He doesn't want her. He wants you. She can't be that great if it didn't work out between them.
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