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writes:How do i move on from my ex? It seems like everytime i do he shows up again.About a month ago after him and i hadn't talked in about 6 months we started texting and talking on the phone everyday and he said his feelings for me and that he would always compare everyone else to me and to us. And he said lots of other things too. ( while he had a girlfriend) But then he said we shouldnt talk and he just went back to being "happy" with his girlfriend. And i havent been the same ever since it seems like i had finally gotten over him my life was great i was talking to other guys i was going out and having fun and all of that just stopped ever since him and i stopped talking.He didnt seem to have trouble finding a new girlfriend, and even though people tell me how beautiful i am, i look at her and then get insecure because shes gotten a lot prettier since shes been with him. This just isnt me im a confident girl and my guts tell me that they wont work out. He never cared about having a lot of friends now all he does is care about who hes hanging out with. And they spend almost everyday together so i just feel replaced. I know that he smokes weed and drinks a lot more now since we've broken up so i know hes not happy, and him coming back to me shows hes not he always seem sad and he told me she doesnt do this she doesnt do that. But then he goes right back to being "happy" with her i think because its comfortable and he doesnt have to be alone. And i want to move on and i want to spend everyday with someone and do fun things and it just hasnt happened yet.I wrote a list of things i like and things i dont like about him, and the dislike was more than the like. But hes a lot different now then when we dated. But i dont want to be the one who hasnt moved on, i want to be in a happy relationship with someone new that i can have one with and that doesnt drink a lot, unfortunately thats like everyone in my town. So how can i move on and finally be the one having fun and having someone to be with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe did he came back 2 months later and then again 4 months later. so it was 6 months since we broke up. The thing is i was so wrapped up in him for a year and half that i lost most of my friends.
Now i find myself sitting at home, and only talking to guys. I need a way to make new friends and meet new people, so i can forget about him and his group of friends.
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reader, thekiddie.  +, writes (26 June 2010):
tricky situation.. but i would completely ignore him if i was you.
if he really loved you, and missed you he'd of come back waay before, not six months later.
He could just be playing you - keep that in mind - and try and think of the opposite of what his saying.
If you have any pictures of him, get a group of friends together and have a boyfriend bonfire, just set alight all your stupid ex's and say why you dont need him, and how your gonna find the man of your dreams.
Soon, you'll start feeling more confident. just put yourself out there, go dancing, get a hobby. take your mind off things, and soon enough mr.right will come along, it just takes time to move on from them sorta relationships.
Hope i helped!! x
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