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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Still in love and can't understand why...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have not been in a relationship for over a year now, however, I am still in love and I don't see this changing. I've tried everything--seeing new people, being friends with my love, completely avoiding him, envolving myself in my passions--and it ...

How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...

I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...

Am I really in love with someone else, or am I just looking for someone to fill the void within my present realtionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am in love with two great men. I am amazed to see the amount of people who are in a similar situation. I feel a little silly posting my issue like some personal ad but I really have no where else to turn. I have been in a relationship with my ...

My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. Questioning her why she left him for another guy? We have been engaged for about a month now and I am expecting his baby in May. Should I stay with him or leave before he hurts me more?...

I'm scared of telling him how I feel, which is strange as I'm always so open and honest. Can anyone suggest how I should handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I dated this boy, for a year about a year ago. I ended rather unfairly; and hurt him quite badly. we were both 17 at the time. A year on, I've grown up a lot and am far more mature than I was then, I have suddenly realised that I may have ...

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi my problem is that I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy. One is my ex (we broke up a year ago) and another is a guy from the same place as us. We are all living in the same small town and they know each ...

I'm in love with my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have this gorgeous boyfriend who loves me and adores me and would do anything for me the only problem is I'm still in love with my ex (who now got back with his ex) I don't want to hurt my boyfriend because he is such a sweet guy... but for the ...

My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son. He has previously had weekday and weekend contact including stay overs but our relationship has deteriorated to such an extent that I don't want to see him anymore. This is obviou...

Perhaps losing contact with my EX would be a bad thing after all, after I already demanded it and had it realised? Any perspectives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi. I asked this question recently, but I received only one answer, when I'd hoped for more: Contact with my ex appears to be cut, as I wanted... But now I'm having doubts that I'm doing the right thing. What do you think? If you don't know of mi...

My whole life was clouded by his behaviour. 20 years later, his apologies would be nice or should I make him literally pay for the damage done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Years ago when I was in my early twenties I had a relationship with a man which became emotionally disturbing. He worked abroad in quite extreme war-type situations. He was a charmer and extremely unfaithful. I used to get calls from girls, o...

Although the relationship was very troublesome, I still feel like I love and want her, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi all, my girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me 5 weeks ago. We had our fair share of problems. She lied to me quite a bit, once about talking to her ex for a few hours, and then about little, meaningless things throughout the ...

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

My ex is blowing hot and cold. I'm well confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi guys, some male behaviour to decode here! My ex fiance and I cohabited for 2 years until we split, we fell out badly and didn't speak. We are now reconciled after 4 years of N/C. He did get in contact two years ago but it was brief, stra...

How do I get him to show me that he loves me? How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend said to me the reason we broke up was because it wasn't working, I wasn't changing and we were always gonna fight and that he doesn't love me and hasn't for the past 2 weeks. (This is wat he said when we broke up) Now he's telli...

If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that considered cheating?...

I understand that he wants his space but I think he might be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am not sure whether I have a problem or it is my boyfriend. I will tell you both sides of the story:- After the honeymoon period of the few relationships that I have had wears off, they have failed. None of them have lasted more than 10 mon...

I feel this is all my fault and I just don't feel the will to carry on. How do I learn to forgive myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hello again. My ex and I have been apart for 5 weeks now after 3 years and a half together. It was a bad breakup and if we both had not assumed that the other wanted it over we might not have ended it. It's been 5 weeks and my sadness is growi...

My ex just proposed to me but I've started seeing someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I was with a guy for almost 3 years and we were really happy. However 6 months ago things started going downhill and I found that the little things he does annoys me, such as his snoring and the fact that he burns toast.(silly I know) 3 months ago ...

Should I stay in contact with my long distance ex? Is making a clean cut the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Hi guys, would just like more opinions regarding contact with my ex. If you're unclear of my situation, check my column, but I'll give you the jist: Long distance relationship Lasted 2 Years Was completely heartbroken when she ended it (...

Why does my boyfriend, who walked out on me years ago, hate my new boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have an ex bf that I have an 12 yr old child with and he was the one to walk out before the child was born and has nothing to do with the child and he started seeing the child but what I dont understand is my ex hates my current bf that I have had ...

Should I contact my ex to tell him I want us to remain friends?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My bf broke up with me 1 week ago and he said he really wanted to stay friends. He said he still liked me a lot but we just arent 'meant to be'. I guess it's true because we both wanted different things out of a relationship so it wasn't really ...

Seeing an Ex for the First Time in Months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I'm seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 8 months. (We broke up only 6 months ago, because it was at the end of a 2 month trip I took, before we saw each other when I got back.) He was the love of my life, and I still have serious feelings...

He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me...

Should I relocate to be with him even though he might never marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - what should i do? background - together for 7months - relationship been great. we met each other's family, hang out together all the time - i love him and i think he does too problem - he's relocating to another country and i don't know if ...

Would he go back to her for the sake of their child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi Sorry this is long But i really need help on this so please need advice, my bf of 4 weeks ive known him for nearly 2 months, told me weds nite that he still has really strong feelings for his ex gf also the mother of his child,they split up aroun...

Even although my ex has told me to forget him, I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - hi.. I am heartbroken here My guy and I are going on for quite long... we were going normal for long till one day he just stopped smsing me. I sent him so many messages but I didn't recieve any reply from him. I don't know whether we both have bro...

After two years of dating will he ever cut all ties with his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Am I asking for too much? I have been dating a guy for a little over two years now. When we started dating he was still married but seperated, which I did not find out until I started asking questions about the divorce. By this time, though, I ...

Why do guys try to portray they are a certain way they think you want them to be, when deep down they're not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Split with someone a couple of months ago, nothing major, had been together just over a year but kept arguing. Anyway we remained friends. We still see each other quite regularly and he would like to try again slowly, but i have stated i dont want ...

Need your opinion...I'm feeling unsure about our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months and I love him to death but I feel very unsure about our relationship. I have been very insacure since I've met him. I have had alot going on in my life and have told him I need the support from him ...

He broke up with me and I'm pregnant with his child. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - my ex-broke up with me over a text msg and told me that he has been cheating on me. im pregnant with his child that he wanted with me...everyone i talk to dont think that it wont last with them because the girls a skank and her relationships dont ...

Broke up with her and now she's in a relationship and I feel hurt! Is this love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - Hello all, Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now even though it feels like only 2, i found out just today that she is in a new relationship, and it makes me kind of upset, i dont know why. I was the one that broke ...

Am I irrational for feeling second best to my boyfriend's ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I seem to have developed an irrational second best feeling to my boyfriends ex. They were together several years and had a little boy together, he obviously sees her for contact with his little boy/ to pay maintanance, but I often find him doing ...

Does he still love his ex? He keeps comparing me to her, what do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I'm so heartbroken right now. I love my boyfriend so much and i know he loves me.. but why does he love me? He just brought up his ex and he always gets so mad at her and i asked him if he got mad at her because he hated her for hurting him or i...

I want to be with the boy I was with two years ago but my recent BF just told me he loved me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - 2 years ago I fell for a boy that lived a few citys down from me. things didnt work out. I held on to my feelings for a really long time. I met a new boy, he became my boyfriend and after i became his girlfriend. i paid for everything, dinenr lunch, ...

I went too far following a hoax, so I am single but still in love...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now and he cheated on me like in the 3rd month. He told me about it and was honest with me that's why I stayed with him. Unfortunately, his ex-girlfriend's friends decided to be immature and ...

He has a child with his ex but what worries me is that he pays the ex much attention, jumps at her calls to carry out her wishes... any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - PLEASE HELP I've known my current bf since the tuesday before feb 14th and been going out with him for about 4 weeks, but one thing's bugging me, he has a 3 year old with his ex gf,he goes round to see the kid most nights and leaves when the chil...

Remaining close friends after a break-up: how will I deal with seeing her with somebody else?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - My ex and I broke up about three months ago, we went a month without talking ot eachother, and finally ran into each other again. Since then we have hung out almost everyday, even dinner with her family one night. We both still love each other a lot ...

My ex calls me at night to tell me of her troubles, when I am preparing to go to bed...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - My ex-girlfriend who I am still friends calls me and asks me for advice about difficult issues at night right as I am preparing to go to bed. For instance, she was telling me a story about a bad doctor she has, that she needs to change. She did ...

Is it okay to be there for your ex when he is down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have broken up for a week now and it's been goin well, i have jus been goin up n down with emotionss.. we didn't talk until las nite he said dat he is sorry for doin this to me but he was jus havin a break down and...

He's seeing new people and is happy without me. Will I ever get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hi Im 18 and me and my ex have recently broken up. I thought I was fine for about a week but then I realised that he is happy without me and is seeing other girls. I feel terrible, I was nearly physically sick when I found out. Many think that our ...

I know he likes me but he's a mess...can I start something with him or is this a bad idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6089 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if anybody has any advice regarding my situation. I worked with some one for a year i kind of liked him and i know he liked me. anyway he had a girlfriend who he lived with. Weve kept in touch over the last few months, he broke up ...

My husband lied about contacting his ex, he's posted near her now...I am going totally crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My husband is in the army and is posted to the North of England while I still live in Scotland. He comes home at weekends. We have been married for nearly 12 years and have one child, a daughter aged 9. His ex girlfirend lives near to the area...

How do I know if the baby his exgirlfriend is having is his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hiya .. Well I have been seeing this boy for over 3 months now and I am crazy about him !! Its just that his ex-girlfriend is pregant? And shes almost 6 months pregant and they both finished the end of july start of august. I just want to know is ...

Could our relation work despite of our different lifestyles and do I ask my ex to reconsider??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My bf of two months broke up with me yesterday. We originaly met thru a mutal friend. Anyway he said the reason was cuz he wasnt ready for a relationship (we are 19). I took that to mean he wants to sleeep around with as many girls as he can. App...

My ex told he he hated me and that his new partner is miles better. Why does he behave so and how should I react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hey everyone i just would like your opinions on a situation. I'll give a bit of background info.. Me and my ex split up in june last year it was a real bad break up and i thought it was all my fault as id slept with someone whist we had split up...

My boyfriend ran into his ex- he used to be obsessed with her- should I be worried? He's acting wierd...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend ran into an old friend not to long ago and I asked his friend about her, apparently they had dated and he was obsessed with her. He's been acting weird and giving her things, fighting over her with his friend jokingly (Who had dated her ...

His ex sends graphic naked pictures to him- up close & personal! How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My BF and I have been dating for 4 months. He has TWO ex wives. His son is from his first. She cheated on him and is now married to the one she cheated with years ago. She has been sending him naked (and graphic) pics of her body...(yes all of ...

My ex says "I'm gonna get you pregnant"! What does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - ok i broke up with my ex 6 months 4 months ago, after few months we began talking because we work in the same area. but after some months, we would find our selves flirting with each other, mixing up old talks about our feelings to our discussion ...

I miss my ex, I miss having someone there for me, and he's back in contact

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6090 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Ok so my ex is back in contact with me now. we have been split up for 5 months but in contact for the last 2 months on and off.(we were together for 3 years and lived together) well i say contact more like he started textin me which i ignored ...