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writes:Hello all,Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now even though it feels like only 2, i found out just today that she is in a new relationship, and it makes me kind of upset, i dont know why.I was the one that broke up with her because i was unhappy, and i wanted to see what else was out there, and i have felt that way throught the break up but now that i know shes with another guy it hurts, why is this? Is what i am feeling Love?, should i try to win her back, i dont know what im feeling please help someone!
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reader, Jolie  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 Hmmm 4 weeks .....So you was the one who broke up mmmm if i were you i wouldn't be shocked that she is seeing another guy. You wanted to see what was out there!! What did you do ?? date other girls?? and than you thought of going back to her?? You made her feel as she was worthless ....she wanted someone who really wants her and so she found one.It could be that she is doing this to try and forget you or to tease you and to show you that if you wanted to see what is out there , she showed you that she saw how it is out there! Thats is not love you are feeling that you ve loseted her.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 HiNo its not love, its just a bit of a shock to you that she's not sat at home pining for you, and is getting on with her life. You wanted to 'see what else was out there' but didn't expect her to. Its a classic, ive always ended relationships, yet the ex has always settled down with someone before me!It tends to be because we are the ones that dont know weather we want to be in a relationship, but they do and inevitably know that before we do so find someone basically!Best to put it out your mind and accept that you wasn't ready for her but that doesn't mean she shouldn't be happy.C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): im not sure how to exactly help you!! i spse if you really did love her you wouldnt of finished with her, it might just be that you're jelous of seeing her with someone else, knowing that you used to be that guy holding her. it might possibly be love! but no one can tell you if it is or not. its only you that can help your self for you're question. differnt people feel love in different ways.
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