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writes:I'm seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 8 months. (We broke up only 6 months ago, because it was at the end of a 2 month trip I took, before we saw each other when I got back.)He was the love of my life, and I still have serious feelings for him, but things just never seemed to work between us, even though I was definitely the love of his life, and he definitely still has feelings for me.We've talked recently (on the phone), and he's floated the idea of getting back together, but there's so much baggage it'd be really hard to do.I'm anxious about seeing him - scared of what feelings might surface and how I'll handle them, worried that maybe they'll surface for me but not for him, and just generally nervous about it.Any suggestions? I tell myself to just 'relax', but that's easier said than done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): You are going ot be nervous and so will he . Eceryone gets nervous in those situations ..... If you still have feelings for him and he has feelings for you, you should get back together . Start fresh . clean slate . new begining and try to make things work :)
thats all the advice I have for you . I hope it helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Nope no suggestions, you are going to be nervous, you dont know what he wants and you aren't sure what you want. Just remember they call them exes for a reason. Just go with the idea that you are not to expect anything except a meeting to catch up and take things slowly and you will have a better idea of where you are and where you are going after that.
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