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writes: ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now and he cheated on me like in the 3rd month. He told me about it and was honest with me that's why I stayed with him. Unfortunately, his ex-girlfriend's friends decided to be immature and text me pretending to be my boyfriend, then proceeded to break up with me. So technically I am single, but last night I drank so much alcohol and in the end made a mistake. I didn't have sex, but it went past friends and that's too far for me. I feel like I should tell my ex boyfriend but he has a temper and may not forgive me. I love him so much and even though we've gone through so much and I have put up with a lot. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Don't lie to him - it'll make things so much worse if he finds out later and not from you. If you don't tell him how will he know if he can trust you again. And won't you feel guilty anyway for not telling him?
The truth is the best option - be truthful, but be tactful too. There's no need to hurt him more than it will. x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): You forgave him for being honest right, you respected that he was honest with you. You need to do the same, he's an idiot if he thinks its okay for him but lays the guilt on you. x
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