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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Troubles with my boyfriend... the girl he lost his virginity to is at our college and in the mix

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months; we've been best friends for 2 and half years and 20 months ago we dated for almost 2 months, so we've gone through everything together. Last year he went out with this girl for under 3 months and lost ...

My ex said he still loved me. I found out he's seeing two other girls! We got in a fight, now he says he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am obsessed with my ex. I really hope someone can help me here and give me some advice. I went out with my ex b/f for almost five years. We split up in November but never really split up properly as we were still seeing each other and i thought ...

After we split, he wanted to remain friends. Then I found out he's in a relationship w/ someone he'd been seeing since before our split!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A month ago, my boyfriend of 4 years wanted to split up. I agreed it was the best thing as I didn't want a future with him. We both said that we'd always be friends but then he started to ignore me and when we did talk was extremely nasty. Instic...

I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...

My first boyfriend from highschool just got back in touch... anyone else been in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I am 39 years old, never been married and just recently was contacted by my first boyfriend from highschool. We live very far apart and have been trying to get together for over a year. I date but can't seem to get him off my mind. We talk quit ...

My friend's on/off again bf got married and she found out while pregnant w/ his child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - my friend has a child with a man she has been dating on and off for years. they are still in an on and iff relationship and she just found out that the man married another woman he's known (or maybe been in a relationship with) for even longer. my ...

Two of my closest friends hooked up with my ex... multiple times!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I just got the biggest shock of perhaps my entire life tonight. Two of my closest friends on the planet hooked up with my ex-girlfriend, several times over the past year. I knew that this girl had issues, but I still loved her, and even though I ...

Broken up with an abusive man but got some worries about getting together with my ex's one-time-friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I am going through a divorce right now. I have three children from my previous marriage. The father was a very abusive guy in every way. The past four years I had my eyes looking elseware but did nothing with it until a month after I filed my ...

She told her ex that I was a gentleman like *him* and she loves Subway like she loves *him*! I think she still feels for him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (?) - i went out on this date with this girl i really really like. she really enjoyed it etc. she even text me later thanking me for it. basically my mate her ex was helpin me get with her. he was askin her how our date was etc. and she said stuff li...

Keep ending up with men who put their ex-wives first!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi, Twelve years ago I was in Love with whom I thought was the love of my life. He was not ready for a commitment, and I dedcided to move on with my broken Heart. I had other relationship's, but I had come to accept that I would not ever fall in ...

My ex will pretend not to know me, one day and the next time, he shyly looks at me. Does he still like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - about 5 years ago i went out with this guy who i absolutly loved to bits but it didnt work out so i tried to forget about him. i got a new partner who i have been with for 2 years and we have a kid together but ... a few months ago we moved in to ...

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...

I'm confused by my ex's reaction to my thoughts on the break up. What does his phone call mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Okay, my man broke up with me around 2-3 months ago. I was going through some bad times and it freaked him out. He said that he doesn't know what happened, that he just wanted it to end. Anyways, we talked the other day about the break up (ran ...

If I have sex w/ my ex, will that ruin our chances of having a relationship in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I spilt up with my ex in November as he was working long hours and has a child (genuine reasons and nothing between him and ex)he doesn't have the time to commit to anything else at the mo. He said that its not me, and he would ask me out again in ...

His ex made it hard for him to trust girls - how can I show him I'd never mess around on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6497 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - this is gonna be a long story but im gonna start from the beginning ok im gona call this guy xxx about 10 months ago when i was with my 2nd bf i met xxx and his gf. we hung out a bit and when me and this guy was alone usually for like 2 mins we f...

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

His gf accused me of messing with him, when all I did was try to tell him to stop texting me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Boy I had dated and behaved like a pig started to communicate back with me on a friendship basis. I notice he has been lying to me for 1 year and sent him message back so he replies telling me he couldn't talk as gf in the house, I get upset and do ...

I'm having trouble dating other girls as I keep thinking about my ex. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6498 days ago

28 January 2007 (M) - Halloo, This probably sounds fairly pathetic but I can't get over my ex who dumped me to travel and also I think because I was having some difficulties with stress at a new job and stuff causing moodiness and all that. She's in Australia now and ...

Whenever I go to make love to a woman, I can't get my ex out of my head! I still love her. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

28 January 2007 (M) - Hi all. I'm having a hard time getting over my ex; we had a torrid affair for many years until she broke up with me 4 months ago. We've seen each other many times since and had sex on most occasions but I sense that the passion for her is not the ...

I dumped my bf to date another and I feel very guilty-how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - hey ppl help me again pls!! a month ago, i broke up wit my bf of 1yr and a half, coz my feelings were fading gradually and coz i really missed being single since he was my first bf and i met him wen i just turned 15. he really didnt wanna break up...

After I helped her financially and the birth of our child, she texted me to say we were finished! I'm devistated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - I met this girl at work. She admitted that she was with a woman with 2 children. we started relationship, got engaged and after 5 months she fell pregnant.7 months after the birth, after I helped her financially, and built our 'nest', she texted me ...

I'm still in love w/ my ex - but he's talking w/ my mate! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - right so this is kinda complicated but it's doing my head in. I USED to go out with this guy called Robert* and we've started getting close again, but he's talking to my mate Angela* and I found out they've been talking for ages now. It really p...

He asked if I was happy about our split and I said yes. But I really want him back!! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Oh guys I want my ex back so much. I posted about this the other day - I am 27, he is 30, we had a long distance relationship for two and a half years and he then called a break, saying he felt something was missing and wasnt sure if he could see ...

My friend told me she didn't like my ex - but she told others she did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - i went out with this guy for 8 months like a year ago now, but we have been on and off since last june, but recently one of my mates told me that he liked her... we have been mates for ages, and she has been with her bf for a year and a half, so she ...

My boyfriend broke up with me and got with another girl. But now that he's broken up with her I want him back! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I went out with this guy for a while but then we broke up as a joint decision because I was too flirty with other guys and I have a feeling he liked someone else. Then he got this other girlfriend and moved on which hurt me. Recently they've broken ...

Im jealous that my ex has someone new, I really want someone new but its not happening!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - im jealous my ex boyfriend has moved on and im still single even though it was me that broke up with him. i really would like to meet guys but since starting college and doing a child care course i havent met anyone i really thought it would be a ...

I think my ex still cares about me, but it seems like he's trying to hurt me at the same time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - My ex and i havent been together now for 2 yrs, but still talk every now and then. Hes been with someone for 2 yrs also.(off more than on) We never really had closure to our relationship. One night he asked me back out, then told me he had to take ...

My ex gf has moved on, she wants me to leave her alone. It hurts so bad! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

24 January 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend broke up recently after 11 months, we fought a lot, bt we always seemed to make up. We both did things we weren't proud of, but recently she decided she wanted it to be over. She went out within a few days and has already kissed ...

Do you think I stand a chance of getting him to give us another go ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - PLease help. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of months ago, although I begged him to change his mind he said he couldnt. The reason he broke up with me is cos he was worried that he couldnt see a long term future for us. BAsically, he wa...

My Ex-Girlfriend is lying, I want to confront her but how without letting on that I've been spying!!!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

24 January 2007 (M) - My Ex Girlfriends Lies yesterday (tue 23rd) my ex girlfriend walks through the door after work to say she got a phone call from a lad from manchester a friend of hers so i thought nothing of it at first until i noticed she was trying to hide h...

My mate secretly asked out my ex! I'm a bit angry and upset about this. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - i went out with this lad but i didn't like him like him so i dumped him after 3 days. But while i went out with this lad i fancied another. he's perfect and we are really good mates but i don't wanna ruin that. Recenly my mate asked my ex out for me ...

I feel inadequate after seeing a photograph of my boyfriend's ex. But am I just being silly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - I've been in a reltionship with my boyfriend for 4 months. We love each other very much, and I am completely open with him. His last relationship was with a girl that lasted 2 years, and they were engaged. He told me he broke up with her because he ...

Should I leave my boyfriend and get back with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Help! I went out with my ex for about 3 years. We split up the year before last and he started going out with someone else-although that finshed because he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. We drifted back together-but the relationship was ...

How do I get over this big obsession about his ex! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy over 3 yrs, and he left his ex and kids,but now his son is having problems in behavior and might have to stay there. How do i get over not getting upset with him ex there causei really don't like her. I know he loves me. ...

I don't think he's serious about her but am I just being jelous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - help! i recently broke up with my ex we have 2 kids together. he's now living with someone who already has 3 kids, my daughter does not like going there to visit, my son has no issues. i on the other hand don't like her, he came over on the weekend ...

Our relationship was amazing for ages and I still love him - how do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - How, how, how can i get my boyfriend back? he broke up with me back before christmas - first called a break as he was upset and unsure whether we could have a future together. He had always thought we would, recently had had doubts, and then...

He moved back in w/ his ex, so I won't let him see the baby b/c I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - Im in a real fix. I have a 5 month old baby, and the dad has left me and moved back to his ex girlfriends house. When the baby was born we got on well, (although we never lived together - he said he was happy sharing a flat with a friend) but he ...

Should I get back with my handsome ex...even though I don't trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - My ex sent me a photo in underwear, he's really good looking and wants me back but he was so beasty to me in the past... he wanted sex from the first day and I refused so he told me he had just asked to check if I was a slut and then kept on asking ...

Is there hope for us or do you think she's trying to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6504 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - my ex girlfriend as met someone new. on saturday i told my ex " i can't have what i want because what i want is you " and she told me she loves me more than anything and doesn't wanna r-ship with anyone. on saturday night she went out with...

How can I prevent myself from obsessing over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - Hi Guys Im in such a dilemma. I broke up with my ex, because he is getting married to the woman he made pregnant. When we dated he told me she was an ex, but later found out she was pregnant by his baby. The problem now is that I cant seem to get...

Unrequite love for an ex gf! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

21 January 2007 (M) - I'm an 18 year old male, i was with my ex girlfriend for almost 2 years through college and we were deeply in love. We suddenly split up due to university and that her parents disliked me (for traditional values, they had never actually met me). ...

My married ex bf is looking for love in all the wrong ways. How do I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6504 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend and I broke up unofficially recently and has had two girlfriends since then. His new girlfriend is feeling hurt that he would go hook up with other women despite their new relationship. My ex leads a very confused life - ...

We broke up but he said he misses me but he hasn't replied to any of my texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - Hey so heres the problem.. i was with this guy for 5 months and we both liked each other alot until one day he stopped talking to me.. it jus ended like that. I was devestated but i eventually moved on and realized if this guy was gunna hurt me ...

The ex gf and I still sleep together! Should we try to make a go of it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

20 January 2007 (M) - Werid Ex Girlfriend Get Jealous and then deletes txt out of her phone y? my ex girlfriend on wednesday night told me " mark u need to move on meet some new people sleep with someone new because i don't wanna feel guilty that i will move on and...

Thought I was completely over my ex, until we met up again. She single so what Should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

20 January 2007 (M) - My ex whom I dated for a year and a half broke up with me about 7 months ago. It turned out she left me for someone else which was heartbreaking at the time, but now im over it. Anyways I stumbled across my ex after not talking to her in the longest ...

His wife doesn't seem done with their marriage. I feel guilty for being w/ him and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I met my boyfriend at work, he is a customer. We got along famously like old friends. I learn that he is seperated but I let the friendship continue even though I know I am attracted to him. I even gave him my phone number when he asked after about ...

He's goes behind my back and contacts his ex, and takes numbers from other girls! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and I went out at university and he cheated a few times (it was long distance). We broke up but a year later we got back together because he is finished universty. I said there was a lot of things that needed to be done on his p...

My boyfriend's ex wife won't leave us alone! We just want to be left in peace. I can't take the pressure!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, I Would like some help please, as i am really getting upset. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this week and i love him so much. My problem is his ex wife, she won't leave him alone. I was best friends with my boyfriend for ye...

Should I confront her over her flirty messages to her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

19 January 2007 (M) - So my girlfriend and i seem to be doing great. Theres an obvious connection. She attends the highschool while i attend a nearby college. ive been noticing messages between her and her x boyfriend containing references to flirting etc.. I feel like ...

She broke up with her bf to be with me but I don't think she's completely over him. How can I help her move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) - i have a wonderful relationship with this girl but didn't know she was attached, until she told me so when i confessed my feelings for her. but in the end she chose to break up with her bf of one year for me. i love her and it hurts me to see her ...