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writes:my ex girlfriend as met someone new.on saturday i told my ex " i can't have what i want because what i want is you " and she told me she loves me more than anything and doesn't wanna r-ship with anyone.on saturday night she went out with a friend.came to my house at 4am. she went mad at me because i took this girl i been txting all week home. and my car broke down so i couldn't pick my ex up. my ex said " if u didn't take her home u would of been there 2 pick me up " ok saturday night she met someone called carl. i asked if she liked him she told me yes and then said " i don't know him that well yet " on sunday i asked her if carl had txted her. she told me yes she spent a good 2-3 hrs txting carl and her mate sherri. and when i wanted to txt kirsty i got " if you don't like kirsty y do u keep txting her? " i didn't moan when she spent a good 2-3 hrs txting her mates.i sent 2 txt over her 25 or so. and i'm the one who's been spending 2 much time txting people.i asked my ex if she was hopeing the thing with carl would turn into a r-ship she said " no i'm looking for a friend and maybe down the line it will turn into a r-ship i dunno yet " she's been quite open about carl as i am with kirsty. she forgot the tell me there going on a date on thursday 7oclock to the pictures i don't think he's looking at my ex as a friend he's going for a date to see if she will date her or what ever.on saturday she read my txt's in secret and when i wanted to read her phone in secret she deleted a far bit of txt from this other lad she liked only a week ago. and when i checked her phone in front of her face yeserday she told me " dont check my phone " i thought we both agreed we have nofthing to hide no more.i read her phone after she went to sleep because i wanted to know what carl is saying 2 her. he didn't say anything other than my ex told me which is good but my ex had forgotten to say she was going on a date with him. her mate sherri she called said in 1 of her txt 2 my ex " u told him? he wasn't upset? i bet u he was upset but didn't wanna show it. its good u told him now he will know you dont want him back " i don't know what my ex had told her mate because when she sends messages they dont save.what do u think sherri meant in that txt 2 my ex?i have an ideamy idea.my ex kissed carl that night told him she liked him and now he wants to goto the pictures to start there r-ship together. but i have other plans i've blocked carls number in my ex phone. she so dumb she will not find the blocked number part for week's before she notices he didn't txt her. and by that time she will be back in my arm's like she was before.what does my head in the most?we still have sex, she tells me she wants a kid with me, she moveing back in with me.do u think theres still hope 4 us or do u think she's trying to move on so much?i think the carl thing was a pay back for the kirsty thing. i did ask kirsty in 1 of my txt " do u spit or swallow " to me kirsty a nice girl i would date her in a second if my ex didn't wanna give me sex. but because my ex gives me the sex i don't need to add extra stress on my shoulders.i love my ex nothing will chance that.last night in bed i told my ex " no 1 can ever replace u " and she told me " no 1 will ever replace u 2 " but in my eyes i was trying to say " i don't want no 1 else i just want u " but i think in her eyes she was saying " i may met someone new but they will never be like you. "
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (22 January 2007):
 to be honest with you.. your situation doesn't sound too good. im sure your ex still cares about you but it is obvious that she wants to see other people. that text you read im sure will make you jump to conclusions. it is possible that your ex has been telling her friend a lot more than she has been telling you. your ex isnt going to be fully honest with you maybe becuase she is afraid of loosing you as a friend. It seems to me that part of her doesnt want anything to do with you and then another part of her still has strong feelings for you. She seems to be over protective over you and doesnt want you moving on, or liking another girl. but she makes it seem that it is quite alright for her to talk to other boys. since you both are not boyfreind and girlfriend any more.. it is not necessary to tell her everything. try talking to other girls, even if you do still care very much about your ex.. it will help you in the long run. by making her jealous she will either want you back or find a reason to be mad at you and break off the conection completly. if that is the case.. then you deserve better than that. (and just remember)"Don't be afraid of change.. you may loose a good thing, but you may get something better" i hope my advice to you was helful.-danielle
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