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The ex gf and I still sleep together! Should we try to make a go of it again?

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Question - (20 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom, * Waited For The One writes:

Werid Ex Girlfriend Get Jealous and then deletes txt out of her phone y?

my ex girlfriend on wednesday night told me " mark u need to move on meet some new people sleep with someone new because i don't wanna feel guilty that i will move on and your not " so i took her advice

on thursday i txt my brothers girlfriend hannah a good friend of mine. i asked her 2 set me up with 1 of her mates.

on thursday she was txting me asking me if we could meet and stuff. but i had made plans for me and my ex to hang out all weekend. today saturday i txt kristy 2 ask her if we could go 2 the pictures for a date next week. my ex read my phone and got mad saying " y didn't u tell me about her " getting really jealous.

so as i got home 2 my mom's i asked her 2 show me her phone she didn't like that idea saying " y would u like 2 read my phone? " i told her " u wanna check up on me i will check up on you " so she said ok but she was in bathroom i said " u deleteing txt " said said " no y? " she said she got nofthing 2 hide.

i remember checking her phone yeserday and she had some dirty txt from this lad called james. the one she had a drink with last friday. and today when she let me check her phone. opps these txt i read this morning whilie she was sleeping as gone. like someone magic had come along and just deleted them.

now she's mad at me because in her draft part she had " i'm quite open minded don't mind out doors " and go's on 2 tell someone she how she loves it sexualy. i asked her if it was meant for someone she said " no it was just what i wanted to write down "

i know it was meant for james because 1 of her txt from james he put " i wouldn't mind putting u over my bonnet and i'm quite open minded for anything else "

me and my ex still sleep 2gether. where good friends. our familys get on so well i even crashed her brothers van into another van and u know what happend he laffed and said " shit happens right? "

y does she have 2 lie 2 me? i she could be open with me i told her today she's the only 1 i want and i cant have her. she told me i'm the only 1 she wants but she doesn't wanna r-ship what so ever with me.

she said " y can't u just wait and c what happens between us first before sleeping with anyone else? "

but y tell me 2 move on if she says this 2 me?

i told her i was loney on my own she told " how can u be loney i've slept at your house all week " but i miss being told i love u and the kisses.

last night while was doing it i asked her 2 say i love u. after we finshed she said it was werid and it shouldn't do it again.

what do u think i should do?

y does she have 2 lie 2 me?

do u think she did something with james but doesn't wanna tell me incase i go " well if u can do stuff with james y can't i do things with kirsty "

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007):

I'm in a situation kinda like yours my ex left me after ten years for a girl he meet at a gas station because she putted out. But he still wants to have sex with me but won't say he loves me. And now we're trying to get pregnant and he is stay with her and i'm so confused. But i think he thinks if he get me pregnant he'll have a reason to come back.

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A female reader, emokid United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

emokid agony aunthi, its obvious ur ex still cares about u and this james is supposed to make u jelous.She still wants to be with you as she doesnt want u to have a relationship with someone else.She doesnt want to say i love u because those words are too definate.i think u should talk it out although it may feel weird. Good luck

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