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writes:I met this girl at work. She admitted that she was with a woman with 2 children. we started relationship, got engaged and after 5 months she fell pregnant.7 months after the birth, after I helped her financially, and built our 'nest', she texted me to say we were finished. Then a week later informed me that she was pregnant again with my child. 6 months later, she has a vile hatred of me and wants me dead. I know that she is in contact with her ex. but to what degree I do not know. I am devastated and still can't come to terms with what has happened. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): Yes, it seems that way, but is really hard to stomach. I find it hard to believe that somebody can be so callous as to us someone like that and ruin their life in this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): I would hope it isn't the case, but maybe she isn't straight and just wanted children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): Hi,
From day one we hit it off. She claimed she didn't want to be with a woman. It was her past, self harming, eating disorders, bad experience with men etc etc. I had swept her off her feet etc. The relationship seemed great. Both pregnancies by 'mistake'. She is very hard faced but deep down she has issues. Scared of opening up and being happy maybe? Or thought she could be straight but realised she cannot? She did say when we met that she wanted babies. i was very supportive, maybe spoilt her. Seems I am the outlet for all of her anger.
Thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): There has to be more going on with this. Seriously. This is very one sided.
Why would you date a woman who is with a woman who has two children? It sounds like she wants or needs someone to leech off of...based on what you have said.
Something just isn't jiving here Dude. More info.
Why did you choose her? How was the relationship during the five months? Why weren't condoms used? Did you both want the pregnancies? Why didn't you just marry her? Was counselling something you two explored?
How are you emotionally? Are you supportive? Are you attentive? Are you loving? How was she?
Give us more about how the relationship happened and why you decided to become more involved and consider engagement and buying a home together.
Please and thank you.
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