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writes:So my girlfriend and i seem to be doing great. Theres an obvious connection. She attends the highschool while i attend a nearby college. ive been noticing messages between her and her x boyfriend containing references to flirting etc.. I feel like if i confront her about the situation she might accuse me of snooping yet. I dont feel threatened as in i know she wouldnt dump me for him yet in a way i feel as if shes almost being unfaithful. Should i confront her about what has been going on? Advice please. Thank you
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reader, cd206  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 I don't think you can accuse her of being unfaithful because she talks to an ex, whether they flirt a little or not. Sometimes people just have some energy left between them that needs working off. You say yourself that you don't think she'd ever cheat on you so try to relax and trust her. After all I imagine you talk innocently to some of your exes too.
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reader, CrazyChavBaby +, writes (19 January 2007):
this one is up 2 u, cos u r da one dat knows her. if u ave been snooping dats how u know den u dont trust her to da max so it isnt going to work anyway and u cant let her txtin im go on can u? i would jus talk to her and ask her if she has had owt to do with her ex man and c what she says if she tells u the truth then u ave confronted her more or less bt been brainy about it where as if she says no then i wouldnt take it cos somethin else might b going on other wise she would ave told u wouldnt she?
Good Luck babe xx take care xx
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