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writes: Oh guys I want my ex back so much.I posted about this the other day - I am 27, he is 30, we had a long distance relationship for two and a half years and he then called a break, saying he felt something was missing and wasnt sure if he could see us having a long term future any more. He then finished it saying he just couldnt see us together long term. I was really needy and almost obssessive a lot of the time and we constantly argued that i wasnt getting enough time, affection from him, etc.We havent really spoken for the two months since we broke up. Then we spoke twice this week, one time him giving me an inquisition about who i had been seeing and then a nice chat about everything. He asked if now thought it right that we had broken up and I said yes - a total lie by the way. I asked him what he thought and he said yes, definitely. He added that time apart has just made him realise things werent right. GRRRRRRRRRRRRR how how how can i get him back? I could move on i suppose but i'll never meet anyone like him! I want him to see that things have changed, Im not needy any more and we could be good together again. Help me please.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (26 January 2007):
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i am sorry dear. i think you need to open up about how you feel or you hold your peace forver. there are only two scenarios here; its either he called bcos he was missing you hoping things will fall together again but he was afraid of rejection and asked you first if the break was the best solution and your pride wouldnt let you out you lied and he lied so who will be humble in this situation and save the day? take a pick! another can be he wanted to know if u are okay after two months of getting over you, and for peace sake he asked you and u said u are so well and his guilty conscious was set free. so what do we do now?
what u need to do is to tell him how u feel without the fear of rejection because if u let this come between you two you will really loose him. swallow that pride and make that call, i mean you have learnt something after all this time and you know you can make it work if given a chance.
just remember no one is an expect when it comes to rship especially long distance ones need a lot of compromise, you have nothing to loose if he is not ready to pick up where u left off, atleast you will know in your heart you were fighting for what you believed in, unfortunately rship needs two people and the other didnt want to take part. the good thing you will be able to get the closure need for this chapter in your life.
jovial
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