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writes:right so this is kinda complicated but it's doing my head in.I USED to go out with this guy called Robert* and we've started getting close again, but he's talking to my mate Angela* and I found out they've been talking for ages now. It really pisses me off cause she knows how much i like him!I asked him to stop talking to her on msn but he can still text her and I'm so sure he will.I was and still am in love with him, what do I do!!!*names changed
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reader, x lana x +, writes (26 January 2007):
 OMG!!!! i know exactly how you feel!!! the same has just happened to me. i used to go out with a lad, and my bestest mate has text her sayin she likes him and he text her sayin he likes her 2, while hes been pulling me!!!!
my x no's how much i love him, i was with him like 8 moonths, and he meant everything to me... and its like my best mate don't care about my feelings!
your right, the lad with still text your mate and while he thinks he can get it from both of you he will do. i think you should either walk away from this a find a new decent lad, or tell your ex that you still love him.
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reader, jabey +, writes (26 January 2007):
Did he end the relationship with you ? its difficult to comment without all the details. I think you should just carry on and maintain your friendship with him, be cool, happy and lovely. He obviously liked you a lot and prob still does. Im afraid there is not a lot you can do to stop him talking with this other girl. And by telling him what he can and cant do will make him maybe a little resentful of you. Im sad for you that she is not a friend who is respecting your feelings. My friends ex often texts me but i wont engage in converstions with him as i dont want to hurt her.
Hold your head high girl if he has any feelings for you he will respect you and continus geting close with you and who knows you may be able to rekindle. Dismiss this other girl as athreat. Do your thing, be happy independant cool, and show no jealously this will make him want you. In meantime do all the things you enjoy, hang out with friends read a good book, go dancing even date. The stronger and more independant you are the more attractive you will be. Good luck darling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): Robert is a free agent and so is Angela. They can talk to each other as much as they like. It doesn't matter if Angela knows you still like him. She obviously likes him two. You can't do anything about the fact he talks to her, dear. He has no obligation nor commitment to anyone, including you. Look at it this way, if Robert wanted you, he'd be talking to you on MSN, not Angela. Sorry..that's the hard reality. So you can be mad, resentful and negative about all this and let this drag you into the depths of despair...or you can use some personal courage and get a renewed, positive, happy attitude and get a life of your own. It's time for you to accept what is happening. You need to to let them be, you need to move on and see other people. Be happy, be strong and just enjoy life. Good luck, dear and make the best choice that is best for you. Take care.
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