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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:my friend has a child with a man she has been dating on and off for years. they are still in an on and iff relationship and she just found out that the man married another woman he's known (or maybe been in a relationship with) for even longer. my friend found out her man married this woman whilst my friend was expecting their baby. my friend makes excuses for him and says maybe its because they had unofficially broken up at the time and he was confused, yet he was not there for my friend when she needed him the most. the guy has denied being married and my friend has decided to turn a blind eye and believe him because she still loves him and they have a beautiful baby together, yet she knows that he is lying. should she break up with him for good? or should she confront him with the proof, which may still result with a breakup or should she pretend as she has been doing in the hope that maybe he made a mistake and will come clean and maybe divorce the wife so they can move on together?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Your friend needs to kick this guy to the kerb! Okay, they have a baby together and he should still be able to see that child and be a part of its life. However that's it! If she continues to see him and sleep with him then she is her own worst enemy. This guy is married and is using her, he's having his cake and eat and and treating her like a door mat and she, by continuing to see him and sleep with him is accepting that!
She needs to come clean with him and tell him she wants nothing more to do with him. She deserves someone who will respect her and be loyal to her and not just use her the way he is doing. The sooner she gets rid of this creep the better.
Eve
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