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writes:I have been seeing a guy over 3 yrs, and he left his ex and kids,but now his son is having problems in behavior and might have to stay there. How do i get over not getting upset with him ex there causei really don't like her. I know he loves me. Please help me get over this obsession about his ex.
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 No problem June. Im glad that you talked with him and that its all out in the open. I hope you stay happy. x
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reader, june2656 +, writes (25 January 2007):
june2656 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. We talked it out and all is better. I just have to realize that there will be time sthey need to be together and proved to me that I'm the one he loves and is in his heart. I love him very much.Thank you all for your help.
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reader, june2656 +, writes (23 January 2007):
june2656 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANKU FOR YOUR HELP, BUT JUST KNOWING HE'S WITH HER IS MAKING ME VERY DEPRESSED...HE STOPPED HE 1ST TO SEE ME WHEN HE GOT IN AND IT WAS GOOD TO BE HELD BY HIM...IKNOW HE LOVES ME BUT I DON'T TRUST HER CAUSE SHE HAD KIDS WITH 4 DIFFERENT MEN AND I LOVE THIS GUY VERY MUCH.........I CRIED AFTER HE LEFT,,,,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): I really don't agree with this at all! He is moving back with his ex because their child is having behavour trouble. ER!! Correct me if i am wrong, but won't that send the kids head even more disturbed???? He has seen the parents split up, dad meets someone else then dad moves back in with mum and dad keeps on seeing his girlfriend! Bloody barmy!! Why can't she control the kid herself? I just don't get this one at all! He doesn't have to move back in. There are thousands of single parents doing a fantastic job of bringing up their kids on their own. I was one of them for five years. The last thing that i would of wanted was my nutty ex moving back in with a gf in tow! No bloody way! Tell him to get it sorted because you are not being part of a triangle!
Take care and stand up for yourself! It isn't just them in this equation, you have a life and say too.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (23 January 2007):
Hi there, well you have to accept that he does have a responsibilty to his children and if he has to move back in with his ex to help control his son's behaviour then you should respect that. I know its hard if you really dont like his ex but you say he loves you and you've been together three years so its obvious that he prefers you to his ex. Talk to him about it if its affecting you badly. Just say you feel uncomfortable with him staying there but you respect his decision why. Say you need a little reassuring about the situation. Is it possible that you could try and befriend this woman in any way because it would help in this obsession and make you see that she's not the threat you imagine. Good luckx
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Well it can't be easy having the man you love living back with his ex, like you said he loves you and you need to trust that love! Keep in mind if you give him greef about it, he will get really upset with you because this is about his sons health! Remember it is not about you or the Ex, it's about his little boy that needs him!
You would want him to support you, and this will only make your bond and commitment to each other stronger!
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