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writes:help! i recently broke up with my ex we have 2 kids together. he's now living with someone who already has 3 kids, my daughter does not like going there to visit, my son has no issues. i on the other hand don't like her, he came over on the weekend and we slept together. i don't want to let my kids go back there for a visit because i don't beleive he's serious about her even though he says he is, is it just me being jelous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): If you recently broke up with your ex and he is already living with someone else, he sounds like he is a very impulsive and immature person, which he has proven by coming back and just sleeping with you and then going home to her....he sounds like a bad penny, he just keeps showing up in your life and not giving you what you want or deserve.
You have had 2 kids with this man without the benefit of marriage, sue him for child support if you need to, but you need a real man with real commitment in his heart, trow him out....and depending on the ages of your children, they should not have to be subjected to visiting their dad at his concubine's house, tell him they meet on neutral ground until it has been a few months of him living with her, she could be out tomorrow so why do they need to be confused with a relationship with his next fling.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 I think it is. If he weren't serious he wouldn't still be with her. Don't get drawn into sleeping with him again. It's not fair on you or your kids. If your daughter is that upset about going there ask him if he'd mind taking them out since she's finding it hard to cope with the idea of him being with someone else.
CD
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