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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Has he lost all interest in me, and if so, can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I can't get this off my mind, and I'm wondering if someone could possibly understand what's going on, because I sure don't! For a few weeks I knew my crush liked me back because he told me and also reminded me about it. He wanted to ask me out, b...

Was she trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Hey, So my problem is this, at a flat party a year ago I drunkenly made out with a girl I work with. Afterwards I told her I liked her however she had just ended a relationship and said she didn't feel ready for another one yet. So a year has pa...

I got with this boy, now he is acting like it never happened!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - on friday i got with this boy and we have been friends for 4 years but lately we drifted apart! when everything was happening i kept saying 'that we dont do this' and h was like this should have happened ages ago. We were both drunk me more than ...

How to deal with previous sexual partners?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - Hey guys, I'm really stuck, I may be young but I am sure of this relationship I am in, there's literally one issue. The girl has had 6 sexual partners before me, and whilst there's worse things and worse numbers, I really really can't get ...

I have never climaxed during intercourse and it might ruin this relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I haven't used Dear Cupid for a while - I guess I only come here when I need advice the most; when I've thought so hard about relationship issues but can't seem to come to any decision or conclusion. I need help; I just need some truthful answers. ...

Found out my boyfriend was using me to cheat on his long-term partner and now my self-confidence is suffering!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - this sounds really pathetic but about 2months i found out the guy who was my boyfriend was actually cheating on his long term girlfriend with me and since then i have lost a lot of confidence. i contastly bodycheck all my fat (im 5'7'' and 140lbs- ...

Hopeless romantic falls for his teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I think that I'm obsessed, or maybe in love, maybe both, with my teacher. She is 24 and I am 18. At the moment I am a senior in high school. I've honestly had a crush on her since my sophomore year, and ever since I've grown more attached to her. ...

Should I twist the situation or are my friends more important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Recently one of my good guy friends, call him A, confided in my best-friend that he liked me. He also said that he was confused because he also like my other friend. If they started dating, I would probably be pretty upset, but I would be able to ...

I am alway in the friend zone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I'm in In high school, I had a lot (5) female friends and not very many male friends. I am a total nerd but not the smart kind, just goofy-looking and not athletic. I do real good with math and computers and physics but I suck at English and History ...

After being so independant I now hate to be alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - So lately ive been feeling very strange. I feel like im a new person? I look at myself in the mirror and i just feel different, its hard to explain. Its not that i dont recognize myself, its that i feel different. I also have started to question ...

I'd like our relationship to be more focussed on respect

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hey I'm in need of some advice. I'm in a relationship with someone of 22 and I'm 17, the age gap isn't the issue. I feel like a sexual object sometimes and its really concerning me. We haven't been officially together for much over a month and are ...

I don't want to chase him, so what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hi,I am 15 and I'm in love with a guy 2 years older. I met him like only weeks ago in a singing contest and I'm melted by his voice. This is actually the first time I fall in love with someone as I've been studying in girls' school and my mom ...

He could be selfish and just a bit controlling .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Hey, I'm in need of some advice on a man I'm in a relationship with. We have only been together officially for just over a month and were dating only just under a month before then. We fell for each other pretty quickly and have told each other we ...

He says he cares for me, but doesn't love me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 17 and we've been dating for two months. We were hook up bbuddies for about a month before that though, with me being used as a rebound, and me using him cause I was horny. After we had sex (he was a virgin, I was not) we ...

How do I talk to this boy who I think likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I have been friends with this boy for two years now but only recently have we began to gte closer as what i thought as friends. When i was at party the other day i got told by a girl that she had over heard this boy and his friend talking about how ...

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll n...

Am I just being paranoid about this long distance association?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - I have a long distance partner who I met on my holidays a while ago. I'm from England and he is from Wales. I really love this guy, he's funny, charming, very attractive and honestly I love spending time with him. The hitch is, I find it really h...

I'm drawn to a woman I just met and I'm not even gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - So I was at a party and I was just talking to m friends then suddenly this new girl in town walked in and I couldnt help but notice how pretty she is. But over the night I cant help but look at her. So finally I decided to talk to her and she's not ...

I'm afraid my lack of sexual experience makes me a less than satisfactory lover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 4 months ago, he's 2 years older than me and I know he has had sex before so he knew what he was doing. Since then, we've been sexually active and have sex 4-5 times a week. However, I feel like I'm not ...

If men can't be trusted why do we even try?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I've been with many guys before him and I know this sounds dumb but nobody else gave me this feeling of satisfaction and love that I get from being with him. This relationship feels different from ...

Should I come out to him, or is he just being jokey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless ...

Help! I think he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start and conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days ...

I promised my girlfriend to never kiss or do anything sexual with her or masturbate, any comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - I have no idea what to do or dont do. I made a few promises to my girlfriend and two of them are to never do anything sexual to her (including kissing) and never masterbate. Since my girlfriend thinks sex is gross and painful, I respected her ...

He loves me but crushes on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend for a few months. Before we got into the relationship, I knew about the fact that he had a crush on another girl for quite some time before he fell in love with me and decided to confess. Even now, he still has feelings ...

Sex doesn't feel good for me, why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - I have recently lost my virginity... We have had sex 3 other times since then. It does not fee; good for me whatsoever, its not really painful unless he goes deep inside but I'm curious if its normal that Im not enjoying it yet. I just feel Im too ...

I am still in love with my old teacher.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - Ok so about a year ago I asked a question on here..it was wht should I do..I love my teacher one of the replies was dont do anything about it its probably a crush..but I've moved onto high school and its almost a year and a half later and I am still ...

Does This Happen To All Teenage Guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4020 days ago

19 December 2013 (M) - Why is it that every time i am with a Beautiful Girl who is Sexually Attractive i always seem to pre-ejaculate in my pants, its happened in the past a lot, will it ever stop? im 19 years of age and today it happened while i was talking to this girl ...

I have a boyfriend, but a crush on another guy has me perplexed! Any words of wisdom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - I apologize beforehand for length/tediousness I am never really attracted to anyone other than the person I'm in a relationship with. I'm happy with this, as it makes being faithful a no-brainer. No exaggeration, I've only been even ATTRACTED i...

Friend acted out and hasn't apologized. Should I get her a Christmas gift anyway?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - On the 27th of November my friend tagged me in a status saying Nickelback was "f***ing awesome" and because I was tagged in it, my gran saw it and commented on it saying that the swearing is disgusting and that its not needed. My friend responded in ...

I worry that my boyfriend secretly keeps in touch with his first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - I don't know how to talk about these problems without sounding crazy so I'm just going to come out and say it. I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months. I know this may be creepy but I often think about his ex girlfrien...

I envy my friend for being confident with boys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - Hiya! Recently, I have realised that my best friend is a 'Guy Magnet' (sounds really strange I know, but its the only way I could think to describe it!) She is naturally pretty and she's a tomboy so its not hard to guess that is another reason w...

Is it okay to date someone who teaches at my college?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - Okay I'm currently 17 and turning18 in about 2 months, about April last year I was seeing this guy who was 21 but cause we were both busy we sorta drifted apart, he recently started to speaking to me again and were getting on really well, only thing ...

I need help explaining things to my younger teenaged brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 December 2013 (M) - Now this comes from my experience with my brother. We'd been a not-so-happy perfect middle-class family with a very fairly violent dad and a not-so-learnt mother. Parents divorced and me and my brother (6 yrs younger) decided to stay with mom - ...

I want some love and don't know how to get a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - Okay so I'm a junior in high school, and I have NEVER had a boyfriend. A few guys have tried to approach me but I turn them down because they're man whores and just want to have sex. I hate seeing my friends with their boyfriend all lubby dubby etc. ...

My boyfriend said he would feel uncomfortable around my gay friend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and I want him to meet my friends. He hasn't met them already yet as there hasn't been an opportunity for him to. So I asked him the other day if he would like to come and watch one of my friends ...

My boyfriend seldom expresses affection for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - We've been together for 7 months. I've had boyfriends before him but I'm his first girlfriend, first kiss, first girl he's ever said "I love you" to, etc. He is a caring and laid-back guy but he doesn't show affection for me very often. We had a ta...

I have a 'thing' with a guy but he wants to keep it secret.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - So I have a thing with this guy, and my bestfriend over heard him telling his friend that he doesn't want anyone to know about us. I believe my bestfriend and he's the type of guy to say something like that too, what does all that mean and what ...

I've got nobody to talk to about my teacher crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - I really like my teacher and it's really hard when I'm in her classes, but I know I can't say anything I'm not stupid. I told one close friends but she just seems to get really awkward when I talk about it. I wanted to tell a teacher but I don't ...

Do I date him? I find his personality crazy attractive, but I just don't find him very attractive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - Hi, first of all thank you so much for any help! I'm in a bit of a bind. Backstory: I'm a freshman in college, and I entered college not looking for a relationship. In HS I had two year and a half long relationships, and I entered college wanting ...

Was I wrong in turning down invitation to go away with BF and his family this weekend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I was wondering if I was wrong for saying no to going away with his family for the weekend? I've been in a relationship for just over 2 and a half years and I truly love this guy however the last few months have been really rough...A week can't go ...

How do we mend our relationship once the trust has been broken?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy a year ago, We dated but he cheated on me with this girl who hated me( his ex). I know he cared for her but I also know she did it to break us up. I didn't want to give her the satisfaction so I tried to work it out with him, but she ...

How do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F) - What's the best way to ask out a shy guy? I talk to him every day and really like him. I asked him the other say if he wanted to go bowling and he said yes but he can't till after Christmas, however, that was just as friends I think. What should I ...

How do I suggest improvements without making him feel bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F) - I asked my boyfriend to finger me the other night which I thought was reasonable because I've gone down on him a few times. It was his as well as my first time. I thought it would feel good, but it hurt a bit and I was bleeding. He went really fast, ...

I haven't met him yet but we have flirted by text.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3887 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - First off, I am in high school. I'm a freshman. There's this guy that I saw recently walking with one of my guy friends. I asked my friend that was walking with him to chat me up. He said he would but that the guy-Cody- that I thought was hot was ...

How to get him out of my mind and heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Dear everybody, please help me there is this cool guy my classmate his behaviour made me feel he likes me but now i guess i was a victim of pure flirtism or maybe just a tp material for him but the ...

Should I cut contact with the girls I used to flirt with and focus on the one I really like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 December 2013 (M) - I feel bad about this whole situation, okay there is this amazing girl whom my eyes were always attracted to and I've kept my eye on this chick for months I never made a move, I never even talked to her before and last Monday I was flirting with a ...

I just found out my boyfriend has a baby but he denies it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - Hi, im 16yrz and i've been dating my b.f for 7months. I just find out that this b.f of mine who is 18 years has a baby. I was shocked when i 1st heard it.. When i asked him last week he denied everything.. I know that he is lying to me. i just don...

Follow up to a previous question: I took the advice given and I'm meeting the guy. Now how do I impress him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I've previously asked a question on this particular situation, however since then it has progressed positively thankfully, and i'm now in need of some more advice. Here is the question i previously asked: 'I'm going to sound like an absolute...

My long distance guy seems distance since he learned I used to date my guy friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F) - Hey guys/girls! Well I'm in need of help. So I'm struggling in this LDR. It's a very weird relationship b/c we've only Skyped, texted and rarely talk on the phone. He lives almost 5 hours away from me. So we've been trying to make things work but...

I'd like to spend more time with him but I don't know how to go about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F) - I'm friends with a guy I play sports with, we weren't close at all at first but we started talking and now it's a daily thing. We've bought each other Christmas presents and he's told me a fair bit of stuff about his family etc. which isn't normal ...