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writes:So I was at a party and I was just talking to m friends then suddenly this new girl in town walked in and I couldnt help but notice how pretty she is. But over the night I cant help but look at her. So finally I decided to talk to her and she's not only beautiful on the outside, but shes really funny and amazing to talk to. I think I may love her more than a friend. The problem is I am also a girl and the chances of her being gay is really low. I've never felt this way towards a girl before. Heck Ive actually never even felt this very strong attraction to a guy before. Anyways its been 12 hours seen I've met her but I just cant stop thinking about her ughh She's actually just literally laying/sleeping 2 feet away from me (we decided to have a sleepover along with my friends). How do I stop this? I just want to be good friends with her. And i don't think im gay. Do you think its just the alcohol making me feel this way right now? But I wasnt even drunk when I first saw her and first felt the attraction towards her.
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reader, FLORALXOX  +, writes (4 January 2014):
First of all. There is nothing wrong with been attracted to this girl. However time can tell because it might be confusion however it could be love. Spending more time with the girl and getting to know her more first is better. Rather than making a move because no one knows how she might react. This is my story: A girl started spending more time with us and as I got to know her I realised she was 'bestfriends' with another girl in the year below. The girl in the year below started texting me after we all went out one night and she was saying really sexual things to me after finding out my sexuality- I'm bisexual. My bestfriend then told me this other girl in my year was gay and I was instantly attracted to her even more than I was in the beginning but daren't say nothing to her because I know how much trouble it could cause. After arranging another night out I found the 2 girls kissing. I split them up and spent the rest of the night with my friend. Now Im with the girl and have been for almost a year. Point is that the two girls had never been in a relationship before it just escalated after becoming good friends- and if your good friends with her the chances are she isn't likely to be surprised if you tell her you like her, this probably sounds really rushed but I hate typing haha, hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2013): A question: if you feel there's a 'strong attraction' and you think you may love her more than a friend, why would you want to stop this?
As far as I know, no one is a hundred percent straight--or gay for that matter.
Like you said, you've just met her. How about giving yourself some time to cool down, see if the feelings stay or not?
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