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writes:Ok so about a year ago I asked a question on here..it was wht should I do..I love my teacher one of the replies was dont do anything about it its probably a crush..but I've moved onto high school and its almost a year and a half later and I am still Turkey in love with him he isn't married has no kids im 15 he is only 20... I want to tell him but I don't want anything to happen between us...I still see him after school I walk over to the middle school and help out the soccer team he coaches (he is also a math teacher) we bond over a lot of the same things...I think he feels the same way about me..I want to wait until I'm 18 then see if he feels that way..my question is how do I tell him how I feel...I don't want any answers like don't do it I just want help please please please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2014): I honestly understand where you are coming from I thought or maybe I do love my teacher and I waited until my last day at school I was 16 told him and he confessed the same kissed me on the head and that was it we barely saw each other and we did he would tease me, flight with me or ignore me. Trust me nothing will come of it, it's just one of those things you think you are the exception but you aren't, you'll spend the rest of your years like me wondering what if and never moving on and personally its just not worth it. I mean seriously I've spend 4 years away from the man I live 5 hours away now at uni and it still interferes with my life let it go its for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2013): Your teacher is much older than twenty, young lady.
You're so young, you don't know any better. He has to have an undergraduate degree, and a masters in teaching. That makes him older than 22. Even if he were 18, he would go to jail messing around with a 15 year-old girl. Now I even question if you're telling the truth about your own age.
"Don't tell you don't do it?" What do you expect responsible and concerned adults to tell you?
Determined young ladies who don't listen to good advice pay a heavy price. They end up in tears, and causing a lot of pain and disappointement.
Then why are you asking for advice, if you don't want it?
You are obsessing over a crush; and chasing a man who will get tossed into jail, if he does feel the same way. I'm glad he's a coach; so parents are around to keep an eye on both of you. If he's a predator, I hope he is caught.
You think you're wiser than us? You don't think eyes are on the both of you? They are.
The minute he makes one slip, he's in jail. He will be exposed and embarrassed as a child-molester. It's a horrible thing to happen to anyone.
Your crush will not last until you're 18. You're a young lady who is stubborn and determined to stick around a teacher until she brings him to ruin. Or, expose herself to a potential child-molester.
Well, it wouldn't really be your fault. You're only a child. He had better keep it together as an adult; or he will be seen as a pervert for the rest of his life. He would be labeled a "sex-offender." He will go on record.
He will have to notify neighborhoods wherever he goes, and everyone would know it.
While he's in jail, the other prisoners will be very cruel to him.
They will beat him up. That's what happens to child-molesters when they go to jail. He'll be all over the news and they will even show his picture on the TV screen. The scandal would be all over the school.
Do you want that to happen?
Then back off, Missy! If you care for him. Don't bring the wrong kind of attention down on him.
You didn't listen when we said not to hang around him. So, if something happens that shouldn't; it's going to be awful.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 December 2013):
 if you know you will tell him at 18 then I think waiting till you are 18 is wise.
things between now and 18 will change. Three years at 15 is a very long time and things very much change.
also I have to agree with EWO that he can't be teaching his second year of school and be only 20...highly unlikely.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 December 2013):
 He's only 20 and has been teaching Middle school math for a couple of years? Most teachers haven't even graduated from college before age 22. Are you sure about his age?
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