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I got with this boy, now he is acting like it never happened!

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Question - (31 December 2013) 6 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

on friday i got with this boy and we have been friends for 4 years but lately we drifted apart! when everything was happening i kept saying 'that we dont do this' and h was like this should have happened ages ago. We were both drunk me more than him. Then the next day he was being horrible saying lets pretend it never happened and it made me feel like i was nothing! why was he acting like this he isnt with anyone else? it mkaes me think that im an embarrassment for him like i disgusting! i really dont get please someone help! What do i do now i cant stop think about it do i approach him or just leave it?

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A male reader, Darrell Goodliffe United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2014):

Darrell Goodliffe agony auntId suggest turning the other cheek and ignoring him totally and just live your life and not give him the time of day

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2014):

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thank you guys!! its just the question of how to distance myself

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (31 December 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntConsider yourself lucky that you got a preview of how MANY of the guys you meet are going to act... in the coming years.... Could'a been worse.

Good luck in the New Year....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2013):

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thank you

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A male reader, M Proops United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2013):

I think you've done all the chasing here, I think you should drift apart permanently this time and not get back again.He's not worth it and does not appreciate you as a person.

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A male reader, Darrell Goodliffe United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2013):

Darrell Goodliffe agony auntDon't take this on yourself. Its not the fact your disgusting. It seems to me that this guy used you badly to get what he wanted, sex and has now turned his back on you. Sorry to be so blunt. I think if you approach him you will not get any answer that you like or that will make you feel particularly better. I would take this as a learning experience. You deserve alot better than this guy and what he has done to you. Good luck.

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