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26-29,
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writes:Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start and conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days when I would leave church quite quickly or won't come he would approach my mum and ask after me. He approached my Mum about three times. His sister is also quite friendly too. Last week when I didn't come to the Christmas carol he approached my mum again. He said that he was sad that I didn't come and he really thought I would come, he even called me sweet at the end. I don't know why he thought I would come, the only person who I told I may come was the Pastor. Do you think they have talked to each other about me?So I went to the Christmas dinner yesterday and I don't really have any friends in the church and my mum was busy so I sat in a big room by myself. Before I knew it he and his friends came to drop some things off. He said one line to me and that was all, "I haven't seen you in ages." I was so confused because he made it seem like he was interested in me and wanted to talk to me, but whenever he gets the opportunity he just disappears or ignores me. It was so awkward because I was clearly bored and uncomfortable, but he just went off with his friends. He seemed really interested, but now I'm just confused. What should i do, should I pursue a friendship or just leave it? His Mum called me beautiful and I think he sister thinks he likes me. I'm a 15 year old and I go to an all-girls school so I'm not used to boys at all. I just felt so uncomfortable, I'm not really looking for a boyfriend, but I don't want him to think I don't want friendship too. I also don't want my mum to get the wrong end of the stick because he's always speaking to her about me and I don't want mum to think I'm interested or he's interested. Do you think he likes me, what should I do or say?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 December 2013):
 You can get rid of the awkwardness by making small talks about his life and family. Once he knows that girls won't bite maybe he will get comfortable with you. You can also talk to your mom, tell her you know what she might be thinking but you just want to be friends with him, and you get embarrassed when people in church talk about you.
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