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writes:Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless Snapchats and then making up some cover up story in front of our social group. I mean he is handsome and I wouldn't say no, however I mean on a few occasions he has said to our other friends "What would you do if I was gay?" And once we all got drunk and while pining over his ex he spilled to one of my other gay friends that he has had relations with a guy before. It's just confusing me and I don't want to just come out and say it to him just incase he was joking and being flirty to be nice to me.Please help! X
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 December 2013):
 If he REALLY wanted to he would talk to you in private and not make a big joke about it.
If he is in your circles of friends that is mostly heterosexually orientated I would CERTAINLY not make anything out of this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help, I myself am openly gay and proud. It's just I don't want it to seem like he's "Just joking" because most of my social circle is heterosexually orientated. However I also don't want to seem like I'm ignoring him if he's sending me these signals because he wants to come out. X
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 December 2013):
 He is two faced towards his friends and your gay friends. He wants to know how he could play out this gay fantasy at the same time be seen as straight to the world. It will mean that you become a secret. I don't think you should come out to him. Only aim for people who are openly gay. Unless you are looking for casual and won't get hurt by him.
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