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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

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On the Fence about My Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - This is an unusual back story which I will try to sum up, and I would appreciate suggestions on how to change my perception. Relationship: Lesbian Couple (both bisexual) Ages: Me (late 20's), her (early 30's) Looks: We are both attractive ...

How can I accept husband's impotence without any medical reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - My husband puts me thru a lots of sexual wondering. He lost his erection several years ago, in the middle of an intercourse. Than he stopped getting erections all together, and lost his sexual desire 100%. I mean, never asked for sex, no touch, no ...

Engaged but not ready to marry

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We are engaged with no set date. I know he loves me and I don't want to throw away a loving relationship for no reason, but I don't think my feelings for him are very deep. I'm worried if ...

How can people have sex with the same person and not get bored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

31 January 2013 (M) - I am still a virgin so I have no knowledge of such things, but it seems to me that If I had sex with the same girl all the time then things would get very boring, kind of like watching the same movie over and over and over again. Assuming that ...

Increasingly jealous and insecure for what reason? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I'm 21, my boyfriend is 26, we have been together for almost 2 years. He is *amazing* in bed, gives me many intense orgasms whereas he doesn't come easily (a woman's dream since it means he stays hard for a *while* without 'arriving') My questi...

How can I stop torturing myself thinking about the night my b/f had sex with another girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. A year into our relationship we had some bad problems, mainly that my boyfriend hated the fact that I was friends with my ex and he became convinced I was going to cheat on him with him. (I never did not ...

Over 3 years of dating we have lost alot of intimacy. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

31 January 2013 (M) - So I have been with my girlfriend for a little over three years and she has lost alot of intimacy. I will be happy if we can steady have sex once a week but she always has am excuse. I find myself bagging for it and that's pathetic. What I'm asking ...

Feeling unfair in a first relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Im having my first relationship ever at age 22 but my boyfriend (who is 23) had a long relationship before me which lasted about 5 years and the reason they broke up was because the girl broke it off, not him. We have been dating for about 3 mont...

How do I refocus & find out if I can continue to stay in my marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I've been married for 16 hrs. I am 45 hrs old and have 2 boys with my husband. My husband works a day job as well as a 2nd shift job. I work in the morning part time and the rest of my time is devoted to my boys their schools and sports. My ...

My husband says he doesn't watch porn or masturbate ever. Is this possible?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - All I ever read on this site is how men use porn. If a guy says he isn't using porn then he is lying. I read a post just the other day for a woman who wanted a man who didn't cheat, watch porn, look at other women, etc. It got tons of replies all ...

We had a sex but I don't want it to be just a one time deal. How do I talk to her about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - This a simple one really...I'm 20, young guy, however unlike most guys my age I don't like "going out on the pull" or sleeping with lots of girls. In fact, I've only slept with 4 since I was 17 all but on relationships and never anything past ...

Boyfriend can't keep it up and I'm ready to walk!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We came across a sex problem after about 6 mths. The problem was, he couldn't stay hard and we got into an about that aftet it happened several times cuz I was left hanging. Now, it...

Why is she having these fantasies? Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - Hey, I love my girlfriend very dearly and the feeling is mutual. We've known each other for 3 years and have been in a steady long distance relationship for 2 years now. We are getting married next year and I'm really looking forward to spending the ...

Are long distance relationships all about the sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I'm just gonna go right out and say it... are long distance relationships just about sex? I mean, if you meet someone online and see them, say, a couple of weekends a month... and it takes around 3 hours to get to them and you're paying for the ...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

how can I stop myself from sabotaging this wonderful relationship with my own paranoia and jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for four months. He was an acquaintance who I knew as a friend of several different friends of mine, one of which he was involved in a casual sexual relationship with for about a month. He needed a house to ...

He won't let us sleep in the same bed! How to get our love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Been with my husband 25 years! But we have not slept in the sane bed for 11 years and he lost interest in sex-until 2 years ago when a neighbour came on to him - he does have problem with Erectile Dysfunction. The affair is over -but he still wo...

My ex is threatening me by saying that unless I get back with him, he will assassinate my character and ruin me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - i am from India..i am in a major trouble. i broke up with my boyfriend because he was so manipulative and controlling. he made my life like hell.In the initial days of our relationship i gave him my gmail and facebook password.Not even in my dr...

Her need to pee is really getting in the way of our sex life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - my girlfriend stops me in the middle of sex frequently and says she is afraid she needs to pee. i hate to say it, but it's beginning to ruin the mood, as it's hard to get into it when she's stopping all the time. now don't get me wrong, i underta...

Your thoughts on this? He's verbally abusive, spends time online gaming and watching porn. Have to ask him for his % share of bills. Is this relationship working or is there an answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - hey guys i am writing this because i am at the end of tether with this man who is supposed to be my husband. We have been married for 4 years and it was long distance. I moved to the US about a year ago and since coming here my relations...

Is my Bf bi-sexual or gay? He says he's shared oral sex with guys. Do I seem to have a closed mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months recently told me that has fooled around with men before. He hasn't had sex with them, just oral. I wasn't ok with this when he told me and I am having a really hard time with it. A lot of people tell me that if a guys e...

He just cheats on me spirtually every 2 months, but defends himself saying he enjoys being a player...should I marry him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 month now is driving me crazy with the childishness he do frequently, and by "drives me crazy" i mean insecure! -he is great in bed, if we have free time of 5 hours we simply did it for four hours, like 3 times or so! -very ten...

My wife is constantly texting another man, asked me to move out and yet says she wants to work on things!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Hi. I have used this site a few times and thank those who have added comments, it helps. Will try to be brief here... Married for 12 years, 3 great kids. Wife and I have always been great friends, quite a bit in common but our sex life has...

The past of my boyfriend really bother me. I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I am new at this lol never posted a quetion before but her it goes......it is kind of long. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. I have children from previous marriage and he treats them as his own. He is very selfless and kind...

I was wondering if there was any sort of vitamins or remedies I can take or use, to help boost my ever so low libido.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - So I'm here for some advice about my sex drive/low libido whatever you want to name it. I'm 20 years old been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I'm a virgin he isn't. So our sex life isn't brilliant but our relationship is great except for the s...

How can I get him to last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Im in new relationship and we have been having sex for about 4 months now. Everything is great apart from then fact that he only lasts for a couple of minutes. He said its because hes out of practice and after a while he'll be better but if anything ...

My lazy attitude towards sex annoys my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hi I need some advice please. My partner and I are both 26, he works away and is only home on the weekends and I work part time and an full time in Uni. We have a great relationship and get along fab! The only thing we argue about is.....sex! He ...

Is my G/f still in love with her ex? Why is she keeping their sexual photos and is she just using me for the life I can provide for her ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Hi there, I just need some advice I've been with my girlfriend now for nearly 3 years n it's really good, we're both in our early 40,s Before me she was with someone just for sex she said but she got attached to him but he left and lived hundre...

How do I make sure my friends don't judge me for having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Okay before I begin please dont judge me. I know a lot of you are going to and I dont come here to be judged I come here for advice. Okay so my boy friend and I are both the same age and we were both virgins. We both decided that we were ready an...

Ever since my boyfriend confided that he and his ex engaged in anal sex, I've had difficulty being intimate with him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating the most amazing man for four months. Everything was wonderful until two weeks ago when he confided that he and his ex engaged in anal sex. Since then, I've had difficulty being intimate with him. I think anal sex is disgustin...

Boyfriend almost 40, gets hard and doesn't cum. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 40 and gets hard n lasts a long time Is it normal for him to not cum? He does once and then gets hard again two or three times. I wonder if I'm doing something wrong that he doesn't cum...

Why has my libido suddenly dropped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

27 January 2013 (M) - I am 26 yrs old and my libido has suddenly dropped. I had a very good sex life before and now am worried what could be the problem. please help. ...

Can a man have sex and cum if he's not even enjoying it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - This is a question for the guys; is it possible for a guy to NOT want to have sex with somebody, but then go ahead and do so, and still cum, even if he's not enjoying it? My bf always says he's not into one nighters, but he told me that whilst ...

It's a secret, he doesn't want the baby momma to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Im a single divorced mother of four kids. I work a full time job, raise my four kids on my own. Along with that I take online college course. I try so hard to do the best I can to take care of my kids and along with everything else going on. I don't ...

He didn't tell me I was his stop gap live in lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - We lived together for about 7 months. He had an old friend. He slept with her once, if he's not lying, and she got pregnant. Then she left to her country which is Russia. He's divorced 33 year old guy and he always wanted a baby but didnt grt one in ...

Everything else is great. So why does he have to masturbate so often? It's the why I can't understand.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Hello All! I am a woman in my late 40s, in a relationship with a man my age. We're 5 yrs in. Im a widow 6 yrs, 3 grown children, 6 grandchildren -- Pisces. He's a Leo. 2 grown children, diff mothers, always paid child support. But he enjoys lots...

I just really wish I knew if he really likes me or if I'm just being used.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I really like this guy, we work together and know each other for about two years. All we are right now is friends. About six months ago we started to have sex and he doesn't want anyone to know because its no ones business. Well we still do and we ...

I'm married but it's a LDR. I cheated with a friend who's also married. I don't want to break up our marriages. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. We've seen each other every 5-6 months for about one or two months. Got married a few months ago and now living apart again. This will keep continuing for a...

Is looking at porn the morning after you've slept with your girlfriend, a bit odd and uncalled for?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Would anyone else agree with this? Looking at porn the morning after you've slept with your girlfriend is a bit odd and uncalled for? Why would they want to look at someone else that soon?...

I feel completely heartbroken, I'd accepted that we had broken up but to be lied to repeatedly just for sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - This all happened within the space of three weeks. So, basically I was in a relationship with this guy for just over two years, we both loved each other but obviously argued occasionally, as people do. One day, he calls me to have a chat, everythi...

I think my husband has an std, is it safe to have sex using a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

26 January 2013 (?) - hello everybody i have a problem with my husband i think he has some std but refuses to go to doctor, is it safe to have sexual intercourse with him using condoms. and can i take his precum sample or sperm sample to test it in lab. if he not wil...

If someone you liked told you not to get in touch would it be really hard not to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I met someone recently and we spent the night together, it was really great. I know he likes me but I am not ready to get involved with him so I told him not to text or call me. Now I regret it even though I don't want anything serious, and am ...

BF reacted badly when I mentioned my physical insecurities about sex - should he be so upset, and how can I fix this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Ok, I need some insight. Without being too graphic, my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I had finished having sex and were lying in bed. Somewhere along the lines of us just talking he said that he really like when I’m on top and in reverse, ...

I positively enjoy performing oral sex on my husband. Do other women experience the same thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - I enjoy and look forward to performing oral sex on my husband. He is shocked by this fact. I tried to explain that it is no different than a sexual position that turns him on or a fantasy he has about me. I want my husband to ask for it. He feels ...

She's finally ready to have sex but I'm not

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

25 January 2013 (M) - Here's the deal. She's finally ready to go to the next step with me. We've been together for half a year now and she says that she has fallen for me and trusts me completely with her heart. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't craving this ...

I confronted my husband about flirting with girls and now he has turned cold on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - How can I improve my relationship with my husband?I found out that he was flirting with girls that he termed as just friends,I confronted him,but todate he has completely changed.He treats me coldly,doesnt show any affection,is never interested in ...

I'm starting to think his sex addiction is a problem

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has been telling me that he is thinking about having sex with other girls. He thinks about how exciting it would be and what kind of things he can do to other girls. We are both aware that he is addicted to sex, and he falls into the ...

Am I too small to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I know this is gonna sound weird but me and my friend got into this really weird conversation about sex (we're both virgins which would explain the constant giggles and blushes) which led to me wondering about how deep my vagina was inside. I actu...

Suddenly can't do bjs any more??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - ok so i have a problem. I have been marrried for 11 yrs and all 1 of those yrs i was able to give great messy blow jobs no problem, but lately i just cant as soon as it gets too wet i start to panic and feel like i cant breathe? it upsets my husband ...

What is wrong with my libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. This is thus far the longest relationship I've been. I am 24 and he is 27. We love each other but the sex has taken a weird turn in the last few months. We were that couple that you couldn't...