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writes: hello everybodyi have a problem with my husband i think he has some std but refuses to go to doctor, is it safe to have sexual intercourse with him using condoms.and can i take his precum sample or sperm sample to test it in lab. if he not willing to go and visit the doctor, a friend of mine is a gyno, can i discuss with her i am not sure what to do. he cannot withstand erection for more than 5 min. and he leaks too much of precum.please help me i am in a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): I would dismiss his ass like last year WHY IN THE HELL would you put yourself at risk at receiving another person's germ remember AIDS is still alive out here!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 don't you realize that if you have to ask the question you already know the answer is no it's not safe until he passes some testing given by medical folks that have some credibility. He's crazy to not get tested.
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reader, AProblemShared  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 Sorry darling but if my boyfriend had dipped his wick elsewhere and bought home an STD I would be having serious words with him, not contemplating safe sex. An STD can only come into the relationship through two people and if you haven't strayed then it can only be him. Get yourself checked out first and foremost. If it is causing him this much trouble and he still refuses to go to the doctors then it's his problem, you can't force him to. Just don't sleep with him until he does just in case! I wouldn't risk it personally. Hope this helps and I wish you both good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 If you think he has an STD why put yourself at risk?
If he can't stand an erection due to pain he needs to see a doctor.
IF he got an STD and is cheating on you (he's sleeping with others without your prior permission) why would you trust him at all. He's a liar and a cheat.
IF you are in an open marriage and he's permitted sexual behavior with others, he's not practicing safe sex with them (that should always be the rule) and therefore until he has a clean bill of health from the doctor I would cut him off.
Besides if he's permitted others, you can take a clean healthy lover instead of your STD riddled hubby.
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reader, R1 +, writes (26 January 2013):
 If you think he has something and I'm assuming you have slept together why not go and get yourself checked out. He needs to see a doctor himself not just his body fluids, but you can't force him, your health is the main priority so go get checked.
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