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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met someone recently and we spent the night together, it was really great. I know he likes me but I am not ready to get involved with him so I told him not to text or call me. Now I regret it even though I don't want anything serious, and am wondering if telling him not to will make him want to.So my question is for the guys. If someone you liked told you not to get in touch would it be really hard not to? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): Thanks for answering.
I regret telling him now not to get in contact with me because I would like to see him again, I guess I was hoping he might get in touch on the offchance that I had a change of heart.
I think it may be unfair of me to do the contacting because I am just out of a relationship and don't want to involved with someone else yet.
I asked the question as I know that if someone told me I shouldn't get in touch it would make me want to, especially if I liked them, maybe men are different
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reader, llifton  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 ummmm... no, it would make me not talk to them anymore.
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reader, Dayzy  +, writes (26 January 2013):
Sounds like you need to ask the girl whose ex only wants to be fwb to put you in touch with her ex. It sounds like your libido is over-riding your brain. You enjoyed the sex and wants some more.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 January 2013):
 I'm not a guy, but I'll answer anyways.
Most guys don't play games. If you tell them to not bother you, chances are they'll take you at your word and not do it. They might also take a blow to the ego too and think that you didn't care for them, which puts a damper on things.
If you change your mind, you call him back. But if you're not ready for a relationship, then leave him alone. Waffling back and forth like a yo-yo sends mixed signals that you might be imbalanced, so if you're still not ready for a relationship, then leave it as a happy memory.
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