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*ntPain
writes:This a simple one really...I'm 20, young guy, however unlike most guys my age I don't like "going out on the pull" or sleeping with lots of girls. In fact, I've only slept with 4 since I was 17 all but on relationships and never anything past kissing outside of one.My dilemma is that the most recent girl was this Monday just gone, I work with her, she's gorgeous, nice and wants a piece of her...we went back to mine after a work party and did the deed.I'm just really sure what to do now, she left the next day and went home, I'll be seeing her at work tomorrow night (we work in a nightclub)...I'm fine with it being a casual thing rather than something serious or even official but I don't really want to be just a one-time thing.Any help on how to approach her would be great.I just see it as between a rock and hard place:- Don't speak about it and it may never happen again when we had a fun time and flirt lots- Ask her about it and push her away as I don't think she's looking for anything at the mo
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reader, R1 +, writes (31 January 2013):
 How do you know she's not looking for anything serious if you don't ask her. If you are just looking for a girl to have sex with casually then that is pretty harsh and not fair on any woman
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2013): "unlike most guys my age I don't like "going out on the pull" or sleeping with lots of girls."
"I'm fine with it being a casual thing rather than something serious or even official but I don't really want to be just a one-time thing."
So, instead of sleeping with a lot of girls, you just want a lot of sex from one girl who doesn't have to be your girlfriend? Hmn...sounds like you're making excuses for yourself.
I mean, there's nothing wrong with wanting casual sex as long as you're not misleading and using people to fulfill your needs. Just ask her. If she's not interested, then leave her alone. Simple.
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reader, AntPain +, writes (30 January 2013):
AntPain is verified as being by the original poster of the questionApologies for the grammar, I typed this in a rush
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