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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

We are friends, but now..he wants to have sex! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now and we hang out a lot. Our relationship kinda swerves from being platonic to romantic(in a silly way)frequently but I never really thought much of it. Until last week whe...

Dating 3 months, no sex. Shall I leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1003 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some imput. I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet. When we started to go out we both agreed that we were going to take things slow, and we have been to this point but Im a man that has needs and I ...

My wife had a termination 6 months into our relationship, and now 7 and a half years later the sex is still terrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - Hi, me and my first love have just got married 5months ago, we have been together for 8 years nearly and have never slept or even been out with anyone else! We are only in our early and mid 20's. For the first year the sex was great and very ...

It seems like sex is a chore for her, how can we improve things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my gf for 10 months now. We've lived with each other for 6. The problem for me is the almost non existent passion/sex intimacy.now the problem isn't so much the lack of regular sex as that doesnt worry me so much, ...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

Tips needed for improving my hand job technique

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend says im the best hes had in bed, and unbelievable at oral.. but when it comes to hand jobs they need some work. i want to be good at giving hand jobs, i never really do it cause i feel awkward. i dont know what to do because i find its ...

Performance anxiety is preventing us from having sex, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - Hello all. I posted once on here already describing some awkward sexual issues with my girlfriend, and now that things have played out a bit since then, I wanted to re-address things. My girlfriend and I are both virgins, in a committed, lovin...

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

Is he sincere about being okay with 'friends without benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - This guy said he wanted to be fwb, but when i told him that i'm not comfortable with that, he said he is ok with being just friends (without the benefits). Do you think he's just pretending that he's ok with that though, and that he'll still ke...

Three times I have declined my boyfriend's request for an open relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for roughly 10 months. A while ago, maybe 4 or 5 months ago, he brought up the subject of an open relationship. This isn't something that I feel comfortable with, which I expressed to him. He brought it ...

Circumcized or uncircumsized? Which do females prefer?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let ...

Is there really a 'generic' cheaper Viagra or like name brand men can buy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Is there really a generic Viagra or like name brand men can buy? Does anyone in the U.S. know of a tried and true ID pill that really works...not the fake stuff that claims to grow your penis. We have been dealing with ID for over a year now, ...

Are all FWB relationships conducted, in this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this question is for people who are in a fwb arrangement. how well do they treat you. I am in one. have been for 11 months now. he never comes round apart from the obvious when he is horny. he is not speaking to me at the moment because ...

I'm afraid to tell my b/f I have chlamydia!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I just found out I have chlamydia and I'm so afraid to tell my boyfriend! I had unprotected sex before him and I got together. I shouldve gotten checked before sleeping with him but I didn't. I'm so scared he's going to leave me! This is the hardest ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving ...

My bisexual girlfriend wanted to have a threesome, but the way she worded it makes me feel bad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend told me she fancied a girl we met, and suggested we hit on her together and potentially have a threesome. I said I wasn't interested at the moment, but the issue has been bothering me a lot since. The girl in question was seriously ...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

I think my guy is too caring!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) - I love my boyfriend very much hes very sweet I mean he will do anything for me and I am probably being stupid but when we talk I will say to him when he goes home I miss him and he always talks about cwtching which I do enjoy but he never really ...

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i...

Why can I not pleasure myself to orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hi cupids! this might be a silly thing to ask on here i just dont know how else to find out and its very embarrassing! theres obviously a lot of ladies on here so hoping you can help! :) im 19, i was very young and nieve when i lost my virginity ...

Wife prefers for us to take care of our own needs rather than have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Hi everybody. Wife and I are both around 50 with 4 kids. The youngest is 17. Our sex life is very hit and miss and has been all through our marriage. Her sex drive is low but she masturbates regularly, though she denies that she does it as much as ...

Going to be married in 2 months and I feel so unloved

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi all I feel I have no one else to turn to. Me and my fiancé have been together for nearly 4 years and are due to be married in march but I feel so unloved. We have sex once a month and it's over in 2 mins. I'm bored and I have tried and tried ...

Better way to give handjobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i havent been having the best of luck when i give him handjobs. first off my hands are really small and cramp easily and im not sure how to get around that. and because of that it takes longer. Also when he does ejaculate it gets ...

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

He's ok to do things when I"m on my period, I'm not!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - So me and my boyfriend were fooling around, having a good time, clothes on, and he went to put his hands in my pants, but I said no because I'm on my period, which I think is gross, and I thought he'd be grossed out when I told him, but he told me ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

He said it was a joke but it's still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Please help me I'm struggling. So to make this short. I'm gay and I'm 18 I have a boyfriend who's 19 we have four months together. Do now about my issue. I went on my boyfriend Facebook without permission I loged on with his password and checked his ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

Is it tacky to ask about STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - I myself am currently a virgin and my girlfriend is not. She told me she has had some unprotected sex. She really really wants to have sex with me, we just started dating, however, we have known each other for quite some time and actually dated 4 ...

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

Advise required on how to keep our affairs on the boil

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - i had sex continually with my wife's good friend who too is married for many monthes. we know its wrong but we both want to continue. please advice what we shud do to continue our relationship....

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in ...

PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel l...

He wants sex, I want more, but I am too lonely to just walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I met this asian guy...we were going out...dinner, dancing, movies..etc...he is younger almost 10 years...I realized..too late he only wants sex. Thats all. And I want more company...friendship. I told him we are looking for different things a...

Bleeding while not on my period, am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Recently my boyfriend was fingering me and I started bleeding but I'm not on my period. This has never happened to me before and I never bleed when I'm not on my period. Two days later I went to the bathroom and discovered blood on the toilet paper. ...

Any advice on how to prepare for a birthday spanking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - My birthday is coming up and my boyfriend says he is going to give me two gifts. One that I will really enjoy, the other is going to hurt. I asked him about the one that is going to hurt, and he tells me just wait and you'll see, then he puts his ...

Not enough sex in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I love my wife. We have a great relationship, but no were near enough sex. I personally am up for it anytime anyplace. She also complains about not enough sex, but never initiates it. How can I change these things? ...

Discharge days after sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Since I've started having sex a few months ago I occasionally get a thin cloudy discharge. To describe it as discharge would be misleading as I can feel it come out and a lot comes out, like I have to run to the bathroom immediately to ensure it ...

A female friend talks about her sexual interests but when I respond she grows quiet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I met this girl I know from college a few years back. We just chat whenever we meet, we smoke etc. we done this a few times. she has been talking about her sexual life and how often she needs it, I do not discuss mine. I really didn't know why ...

I feel that I m a mother to him, not a wife.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - We 've been married forever. Right after my high school. We started out having no money at all to now owning a jewelry store. We split responsibility. I care of administration, my husband actually makes all the repairs and new designs. The probl...

I don't think my g/f is into me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been togeather for 3 yrs now she use to like sex with me.but now im not so sure it went from 1 to 2 times a week to once or twice a month.she use to b relly tight t even now when we do it . its still loose even after a ...

I want to combine all of our fetishes into one night. Suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Me and my Gf have recentally shared with each other about our fetishes. She has a rape and bondage fetish, and i have a diaper fetish. When I found out about her fetish I was fully accepting and I'm willing to play the part to pleasure her. But wh...

Have you ever got in a relationship with someone, knowing beforehand it probably wasn't going to workout, just so you could have sex with that person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Have you ever started a relationship with someone, knowing all-well that it probably wouldn't workout anyways, just so you could have sex with that person? I'm curious because from what I've observed among friends and acquaintances - ...

Is there a way of asking a guy if he's tested and free of all those things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Sort of embarrassed to ask this, but has been on my mind. So months ago I signed up on a site where I met a man from another country. We have skyped before and talk virtually everyday Now he's told me, he and his boyfriend have an open relationship ...

What hope is there for this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Bit of a long story so please bare with me. Met my girlfriend at work 5 years ago, she was an Assistant Manager of 21, I was a 38 year old employee. Despite the age difference we hit it off straight away and started dating almost immediately. During ...

Does withholding sex mean one is playing games?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - This is sequel to a previous post. How is holding out on sex with your partner playing games? How is games if your intention is not to be manipulative? Must sex be everything in a relationship? I am in a LDR which picked up very fast in the begi...

My B/f says he's desensitized from all the sex and needs a three day break! Is that even possible? And he watched porn the very next night!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been having sex pretty much every night for the past week to the point where he can't cum. He says he's desensitized from all the sex and needs a three day break, which we both agreed to under certain conditions: he not ...

My wife says she no longer enjoys sex but she's unwilling to try new things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4688 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I have been with my wife for a total of 5 years and until recently, our sex life was pretty decent, but as of late, she has stated that she does not get anything out of it. I have done some research and understand what she means, but she is unwil...