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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Dreams of sex with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Ok so i keep dreaming about having sex with my ex. The dreams are always the same, we have sex, i freak out and tell him it means nothing and that it feels wrong. Then i go back to my current boyfriend make love to him and everything is right. ...

Videotapes of wife with ex....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I found a video of my wife with an ex, she says she thought they had been erased. I knew they had sex and that my wife wasn't a virgin, so I am not so disappointed by that, but rather in the video he finished by giving her a facial. I always ...

I just can't measure up to the vibrator.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - My MASSIVE problem, someone please....help me. Part 1 : In the beginning.... I have been with this woman for over a year and a half and during this time we have had sex many times. At first everything was great although I was never sure if I e...

Husband never says I love you after we have sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hello, I am really upset with my husband, because after we have sex, I always tell him I love him, and he refuses to say it back (he does tell me he loves me at other times). I explained to him that its really important to me to hear it, and tha...

Wife wanted voyeurism, ended up being a threesome...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Ok, I let my wife open a can of worms and now I regret. My wife said she didn't want a threesome, BUT she was interested in a bit of voyeurism. She said she wanted to have sex with me in front of someone. I finally agreed, not too eager ab...

Fooling around and now worried about the consequences

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I was fooling around with a friend (unprotected) and first he said that he didn't cum, and when I was giving him head I definitely tasted something and I was wondering if it was precum. Now, as I was very very drunk, I only THINK that there was ...

I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about my wife having sex with other men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - When I was 15 and my wife Susan was 16, we were lovers and I was the first one to ever have sex with her. After a couple of years we drifted apart and later when I was 18 my room mate and Susan became friends and wanted to date, he asked my ...

Why did he have to make himself cum? Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hello i have a important question well it is 2 me lol Ive been kindof seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months we are not in a relationship but oftern sleep together so kinda guess if fuck buddies really Anyway hears my problam, after...

Shaving, losing my virginity and pain! Need advice on all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hia, I'm 16, and i think that in august i will loose my virginity to this lad i am in love with. We're not going out because he lives about 2 hours away and we think it would be too hard to have a relationship cus of the distance, but we both want...

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so scared of sex toys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi, My bf is scared of sex toys... He says he feels intimidated by them, and that he has had a couple of women tell him hes dumped they bought a dildo and showed him the door, one of these girls (i used to know her and she wasnt terribly freindl...

What do guys consider a friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - What do guys consider a friend with benefits. I don't see a problem kissing someone, touching and possibly maybe giving a hand job or him fingering me as friend with benefits even if it happens a lot. I do think giving blow jobs, him going down...

If I have not had sex for a long time, will doing it again feel like the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I haven't had sex for a long time now.When I do it again,is it going to feel like the first time?...

How soon after unprotected sex can you get tested for STD's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - how long after having unprotected sex with someone you dont know too well should you get tested for std's...i know some std's come 3 months later like hiv but im so worried i want to get tested sooner than that! ...

I hate that I need "kinky" thoughts to achieve an orgasm!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - porn is so visual and kinky, the fact that its not you in the act makes it so much more kinky and orgasmic, its weird, the kinkier the better to orgasm to....i find it easier to masturbate to porn (watching men strip, women strip, gay porn.) I ...

Has anyone got any tips on how to get your boyfriend really horny?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - So, i'm a virgin and my boyfriends not. i know it's usually the other way around and all, but not in this situation. he's ate me out, fingered me, and we dryhump all the time. the thing is, i wanna make him really horny. what are some really good ...

Am I still a virgin? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm 15 years old, female, and I think still a virgin. My boyfriend and I we're fooling around today like we normally do, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base all covered. We we're getting really into it and he got on top of me, I was wearing a skirt. He fingered ...

He asked for a bj and I want to make him happy but should I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - i have a really great guy friend. we work together, at times hang out. i was in a 2 year relationship but that ended a year ago, and since then i've met a few guys and dated, but nothing serious; my friend is a virgin and lives with his mom, he is a ...

I swear she has had anal sex before.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - This is gonna sound like I'm some jealous macho American asshole, so sorry in advance. I am wondering there is any way to think if my girl has had anal sex before. I realize that I should trust her when she says no, and that love is built on trus...

Boob jobs usually end in divorce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2313 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hi all, enjoyed the site so I thought I would join and ask a few "burning questions" to hear what a different group thinks. Please bear with me, I'm not trying to come across as accusing ANYONE of anything with this question/stateme...

Why does he ask me these strange questions in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 1 year with my guy. We both have previous marriages and have dealt with a lot of "Drama" from both sides over the past year. Our sex life is great! Every night.. and sometimes more than once in a night. ...

She says she doesn't want to be FWB but isn't that what we are??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - How do I figure this girl out, before I start I have to say that I am a typical young bloke who is very open and honest. I am very attracted to a girl I work with and we have worked together for about 4 years, we flirt all the time, I was stra...

Why does my fiance have the desire to look at porn when we have a healthy sex life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I need a man's perspective on an issue. Me and my fiance have a healthy sex life. I, unlike some women, have a sex drive (I'm not a slut, I am very faithful to him). I try to keep things interesting in the bedroom and I never refuse him when ...

Is my girlfriend cheating on me... while on the phone with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I think my GF is cheating on me. I travel for work and I called her the other night and was really horny so we had phone sex. It just seemed too real. We were fantasizing about having sex and she starts getting into it a bit, but as time progr...

Will she tell me she wants anal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Will women just come out and say what they want? My wife originally was anti-anal, wouldn't even let me get close. As time has gone on, things have progressed and it was first playing around the outside of her anus, then pinky penetration, then ...

Should I take this job with my half-brother despite our history?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I need some serious help my older Brother moved in with us when I was 16 we have the same father but not the same mother... but he needed a place to go and my mom let him stay with us he was 17 at the time ...I've seen him a couple of times when we ...

Is sex painful for me because of too much masturbation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hello Cupid, I am 22 year old Chinese. I was raised in Hong Kong and received my higher education in the UK. I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend in late January. I have been sexually active for three months now. I never had vaginal inte...

Why won't he initiate sex or tell me what he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I am a sexually assertive woman who is concerned that my boyfriend does not initiate sex or tell me what he wants. I enjoy sex and BJs and like to start the day with a BJ but it is always me initiating sex - sometimes I feel like I am bothering ...

Can I trust this man to take photos of my girlfriend and her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - First of all I should start by saying that I have trust issues to begin with that I'm not proud of, but they're hard to get rid of. Basically the story is this, my girlfriend told me she was bisexual and we decided that it would be a nice way to ...

Our sex life is so limited, how can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - *MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity* My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it a...

How do I tell a guy I won't have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - How do I tell a guy that I want to wait to have sex till I am married? That I am not willing to give it up?...

I want to wait until marriage for sex, how can I resist temptation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I'm 22, and I finally have a boyfriend, and just lost my first kiss about a year ago. I have always said I'd wait till marriage before sex, but I keep getting tempted. I moved in with him because I had no where else to go. Which is really not help...

Girlfriend doesn't want sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I'm a college student with a girlfriend of 6 months. We've recently been talking about sex and she mentioned that she does not want to have sex anytime in the near future. We have only been making out with a little groping etc. She is quite high ...

She likes it better without a cover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - when my girlfriend and i have intercrouse, with no condom she likes it more cuz she can feel the head more and during it, my penis feels like its getting squeezed, like her vagina is getting tighter and such and her eyes are closed and looks like ...

Boyfriend won't let me have it and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hello. I really need some help with my situation because it is upsetting me so much. I am 20-years-old and my boyfriend just turned 22. We've been together for 2 1/2 years. In the beginning of our relationship we were intimate a lot of the time and ...

Friends with benefits, how do I find out if he wants more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok two years ago after I broke up with my BF I met a guy who I talked to for a little bit but decided to make it a sex only relationship because I didn't want more. It worked out well. We had sex for like 4 months then I got back with my BF. A year ...

I love my husband but not this forced celibacy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Im an totally sexually deprived. My husband does not have any sex drive. We tried to fix this problem , but never got better. But now, I realized, if I dont want to leave ,its better just leave him alone.He is nice guy,I don't know what happened to ...

Does he like me or is he craving sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, i have a dilemma that isn't putting my life on hold, but i'm still a little nervous. Lately i've noticed this cute-ish guy watching me; it's getting a little bizarre. He usually stares at me deviously, or attempts to touch me "uninte...

Fantasising about my wife with other men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I have been married 30 years and I keep fantasising about my wife with other men all started about 10 years ago when my wife has a checkup at a private clinic doctor gave her a full examination while I watched I couldn't believe it I got the biggest ...

How do I let him know he can go for it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok, well, I'm 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now. We have been friends for a couple years now and are both virgins. Everytime I see him I can't help but smile and I find him to be a complete turn on pretty much all the ...

How can one be so cruel?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

Been in this relationship for six years and have a yen for a no-strings fling

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I think about having sex with another man but ive been in a relationship for almost 6 years is that normal? Its not like I don't love my Husband I just want to feel new dick with no strings....

I am confused about my sexual identity and feel so alone! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am 23 years old male. I am an exremely shy and confused person. I have been diagnosed with depression, borderline personality disorder and an eating disorder. Some of my problems are sexual one of which is sex feels wrong to me and I'm af...

My boyfriend wants to bring a third!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hello again!This is my second article. Well I am with a guy for about a month and im having a great time, when my daughter lets us alone of course. There is always fantasy when we have sex and he seems to want me alot too. Last time he too...

First he had an emotional affair, and now he just doesn't seem interested in me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I just feel like venting some feelings and hope you can give me some advice. Tonight I was rejected by the man in my life, yet again. Recently, I discovered he was having an emotional affair with another girl for just under a yea...

Why didn't I bleed after losing my virginity? My boyfriend doesn't believe me now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - am a virgin i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and no bleeding and now my boyfriend think am not a virgin he thinks that i have had sex with somelse. but i know am a virgin , i swear, and don't know why no bleedig i really need help...

My boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking...

Why does sex hurt so much? Is it him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hey all just a quick question. Im 19 and 4 months ago i got with my current boyfriend after talking to him for a half a year, i dont know whether this may help but im only 5ft 1 and of a petite build, where he's 5'11, very muscley, and jus...

Does he love me if he feels the need to cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 4 years, until about 2 months ago. We broke up due to mutual decisions, which we both realise now are trivial compared to how much we love each other and want to be together. While we were broken up, I slept with ...

How do I go from 60 to 0?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I'm just going to get to the point. I can't seem to go long without sex or beating off. I want to stop doing both. All answers are appreciated. Thanks....

I'm feeling different and bi-curious since losing my virginity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - hey everyone, ive been totally feeling different ever since i lost my virginity. heres how it started, i went on this 1 mobile chat site and met up with this 1 woman. we went to her place and... did it. she was nice and kind but its just that sex ...