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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...

I love him, but I get turned on by porn and not by him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm looking for help with my sex life in regards to a particular problem I've been having over the past few weeks. Me and my boyfriend have been in an amazing relationship for almost 2 years, and sexually active for just under a year and a half of ...

Do alot of men run when they find their partner is pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - i going to be giving birth in the next month and the father who i was dating for, for 6 years did a legger as soon as i told him he has a new gf now anyways i have to do it all on my own to be honest i don't think i'm ready to be a mam or to do it ...

With all the sex and no pregnancy, could I be infertile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I'm 19 and i just got married on the 17th of dec to my boyfriend of 3 years hes in the military and i'm really happy . how ever my concern is that when we got married we had sex with out a condom and i'm not on birth ...

Is it possible to wear a condom and then not know it has come off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - This is a strange post but I can't stop thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We get on well and have a good relationship. The other night he came around to mine and we ended up making love. Somehow the condom came ...

Pregnant by an older abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend has been putting hands on me for while and gets outta control when we get into arguements sometimes. I am 20 and he is 20 years older than me. He always says the things I do causes him to do what he does. I really started thinking ...

I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i am 43 and my boyfriend of 2yrs is 27 i just found out im pregnant and i already have 3 kids he has none we are very serious and i thought he might be happy about this but he is very unhappy says hes not ready and does not want it.. what should i ...

Help. Baby daddy family drama part 2.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My son's biological father, we will call him Cord, died in June of 2009 he was drunk on father's day and fell off of a roof. My son was six months old at the time. 1. Cord was never there for our son even before he died. He never helped me financ...

He wants me to stop taking birth control and see what happens!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am 27 and am in a new relationship of 3 months with my boyfriend who is 26. We have known each other for years, hanging out with mutual friends every now and again through that time. I have always had something for him this whole time but whenever ...

Should I really be doing this or am I getting a little ahead of myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 14 years old, and just recently, I've made plans with this guy, a friend, who I've known for years, to lose my virginity...and I know a lot of people might say I'm too young, but I know what I want.. my thing is, I have a fear of ...

Can you get pregnant without having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Ok I have heard a lot of what I think are myths but I want to be sure about the subject of unplanned pregnancy. My question is if is really possible to get pregnant without even having intercourse. I have heard about the guy cummin on you and gett...

Pregnant, Jealous - how do I stop? urgent help needed!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I will try and keep this short. Basically I am 3 months pregnant to my live-in boyfriend. Before I got pregnant (this time), his ex (who has a new partner and child) would call him every week or so and despite us being together for 2 years, ...

I might be pregnant, and I'm 14!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi, im Maria and im from utah, and im 14 almost 15 years old, and i think i might be pregnant. I don no what i should do only 3 people no that i might be pregnant there all my best friends, i told my boyfriend(well ex boyfriend now) that i might be ...

Can a vasectomy fail after thirty years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - A man I may be pregnant too claims to have had a vasectomy some thirty years ago.. Is it still possible it is his or is he likely to be lying? He never said this when we slept together in fact he asked if I was on the pill but he said this after I ...

I got pregnant from an affair but lied and told the father I had an abortion. He'll find out about my lie soon enough!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I recently found myself in a very difficult place and any help would be most welcome but please don't tell me I am a bad person as I feel awful anyhow... I have been engaged to a lovely man for three years and we have a twelve month old...

I want to keep the baby of 2 month relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Im 8 weeks pregnant and boyfriend wants abortion and has already dumped me! he says he has a 6 month baby and is not prepared to have another baby and we were together for only 2 months! i want to keep the baby but im afraid of being a single mom. ...

How should I prepare for being a teenage parent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - okay thnx for the previous advice guys and yea everything is fine now, my parents were pretty stricken at first but after their shock they were very suppportive! our friends were all shocked but their great... just another question...what ...

I want a baby so bad, but we can't have one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - It breaks my heart to see all these young women on here pregnant and scared when there are people out there that want babies so bad and can't have them. I've been married for 5 years and we can't have kids. The adoption agency we spoke to said th...

My BF is obsessed with sexting me and I think it's inappropriate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost three months. I love him and he loves me. Very much. Our parents refuse to let us date, so we date through text messages, late at night, when we are alone. He likes to virtually "do" me while talking. He ...

I lied to my Mom, but I love this boy so much

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 5 months ago i met my uncle's wife's brother at my little cousin's birthday party. They all live in mexico so i rarely see them. This boy and I didn't talk, we just looked at each other and smiled, through out the whole party. After that...

Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...

Can having rough sex while pregnant harm the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Can having really rough sex while pregnant harm my baby? My boyfriend was rough last night to the point where he made me bleed. It only lasted a few minutes then stopped but im 5 and a half months pregnant and this has worried me. Its my first ...

I don't want an abortion this time around!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - i am pregnant by my first cousin.we have been together for last 4 years and now that i am pregnant by him, he is not able to decide further. i want to have this baby as he has already got my 2 abortions before in fear of facing the family.this time ...

I'm going to lose my baby and my boyfriend is not comforting me !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I just found out I was pregnant 3 weeks ago. completely by surprise i am always careful with my birth control and my youngest child is 18 years old with out so much as a scare since he was born. My boyfriend did not take it well. we have ...

Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...

I just found out I'm pregnant and he doesn't want kids

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

25 December 2010 (?) - I need some advice. So i'm 17,my boyfriend is 19, we've been together for over 2 years. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were talking and the subject of kids got brought up. Anyways so my boyfriend said that he doesn't want any kids. Today I just fou...

My strategy failed: I lied to my bf saying I was pregant to try to get him back. Would telling him I miscarried work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - OK; soo i Have an ex boyfriend and i am still in love with him... i would love to know how to get him back ? he is my very first love, but i think i made a mistake. Because i lied to him and told him i was pregnant, just to see if he would come back ...

Please don't judge, need advice. I'm crazy for him. He has 5 kids by 3 women and his wife is pregnant. At wit's end

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I need help. I've been in a relationship with this man for over a year now. He's married. In the begnning I idnt know he was married. His family lied to me he lied to me. I got pregnant and we now have I child together. She is 5 months old. He and ...

Can taking one birth control pill before your period mess up your cycle and make you more fertile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - So I havent had sex since Feb 2010 because my boyfriend had went away for a while. And while he was gona I stopped taking my birth control. So he came home Dec 15 2010 and I was expecting my period that and I didnt want to be on it because I wanted ...

Feeling so guilty. I was drunk and did stuff with a friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Okay so, two nights ago, I got drunk. But not over my head drunk, I still had a bit of consciousness intact. I was at a party and one of my guy friends, who I'm fairly close with, offered to take me home. I let him since it wasn't the first time. Bu...

I'm pregnant by someone else, my boyfriend doesn't know and I can't have an abortion!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hey pipo m hopin u help me out on this problem....me and this guy have been datin 4 2yrs nw,n i met this nice guy we went out @ some club and took enuf beers...we later went 2 his home we had sex and now m pregnunt n my boyfriend doesnt knw about ...

Should I tell my mom I'm pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - i am 14 years old and 4 weeks pregnant. the father is 19. no one knows should i tell my mom since it was consensual? what about the dad? i have only seen him once that night. should i tell him? would he care?...

Need your advice on what to do after this conversation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I'm a Jamaican girl who has been seeing a Moroccan for over a year now. I am also divorced and already have two kids, which he says is a problem for him. He has told me because of the kids we can never have anything permanent. well i'm pregn...

Confused soul who thought she knew it all...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hard to determine what my relationship status is with this man however it seems to work for both of us. He's an aquarius and I'm an aries (both independent souls) Started off as friends who met online from a social network and about a month later ...

He's not talking to me much, does that mean he's cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - So im pregnant and i told my boyfriend that i am moving. the thing is before i told him he bought me a stuffed animal and chocolate. so i finally told him that im moving. and he thought about us living together. then i told him lastnight that ...

How do I reveal to him and his mother that I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have known my boyfriend for about a year and we've been dating for nearly 6months. He is a great guy. We are both 24 with me being a few months older. We discussed the possibility of pregnancy when we decided together to have unprotected sex. We ...

Baby is on the way, how do I tell him when we have broken up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hiya girls and guys. I recently found out that I'm pregnant. I'm only 17 and the father is 19. We broke up about a month ago but we're still friends. He is unemployed at the moment and still lives with his parents. I'm a student and I was hoping to ...

My comatose husband may never wake up. Should I try and raise his baby alone or abort it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - Hi, everybody i'm new here so here goes... about 2 months ago my husband and i got in a near fatal car accident. i am ok, just came out with a broken arm, but my husband suffered a serious concussion and he has been in a coma ever since. i'm so ...

Just found out my ex is pregnant with my baby but I have moved on!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - hi there I was with this girl for 6 years and just saw her weekends told her it was over cos i said i fell out of love with her really i just found someone new, well my ex is pregnant and its mine but i now want to live with this new girl i met a...

The always-in-trouble boyfriend, the lover and pregnant me...help me out of this mess!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Alright ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months,the first year we wer very good i was the happest girl in the world.hes a great guy weve never had any trust issues we are alwas together. after the first year we moved out together that was ...

I wish my boyfriend would treat me with some sort of respect!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - i dont know what to do. my boyfriend treats me like shit. we have a baby and im 8 months pregnant again and he has a job so hes never really home during the day. i get up every morning with the baby and tend to the baby all day then my boyfriend ...

I'm 17, pregnant and everything is weird with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 December 2010 (?) - Hi everyone! so here is the problem. my boyfriends and i relationship has been awfull! i am pregnant with his baby. our relationship was great untill i found i was pregnant. he tries to be happy with it but he is just scared! i am 17 and he i...

Can someone give sperm donor info?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - My fiancee and I have been trying for over a year for a baby, turns out he's unable to have any kids. We were thinking about going to a sperm donor. Does anyone know how this works? How much does it cost? Do they give any papers to take home? Do...

Am I just grieving over the baby I lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - hey, i need a little advice on miscarriages... altho my story is slightly different to the normal. in august this year i found out i was pregnant. it wasnt planned. i live with my boyfriend and his parents and was told if we got pregnant we woul...

Is this just the pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - Right now I have a very low tolerance of men! They make me so angry, especially my fiance. Is it the fact that I'm 3 and 1/2 months pregnant? Is this like a mood swing or something?...

He was talking about another girl's vagina!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - Ok my boyfriend (both 26 years old) and I have been together a few years. We have a daughter together and I recently found out we are expecting again. Last night he had a friend over and they got drunk and I went to go to sleep. I could hear the...

Am I able to pull it off as my boyfriend's baby?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - Hi I'm in a tough situation,I think I might be pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby. My current boyfriend and I have been trying for a year for a baby and haven't had any luck. He cheated on me 3 times a while back and out of anger I went and cheated ...

I'm scared about going to school pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - im a 14 year old girl and im pregnant by my boyfriend of a year in a half. He is supporting me on everything but im so nervous to go to school by the time i get big. how do i handle the criticism of the kids in my school?...

Can you get morning sickness if you havn't slept yet? Does it always happen in the morning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I work 12 hour night shifts which my body is used to. I am 20 years young. My question is this: Ive been getting nauseous in the past 3 or 4 days. The first time was a morning I woke up to. The second I was working my night shift and everything was ...

I think she got back with me only because she's pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - hi, me and my girlfrind have recently got backtogether from a break, but i feel that she has only got back with me because she found out she was pregnant, we have another child together, but i am doubting pperternity of the child she is carrying, as ...