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*ebo
writes:i am pregnant by my first cousin.we have been together for last 4 years and now that i am pregnant by him, he is not able to decide further. i want to have this baby as he has already got my 2 abortions before in fear of facing the family.this time i don't want to kill my baby and want to keep it.help me..what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): he is procrastinating. if he is afraid of your family and not able to accept the consequences of his actions then you should find someone who will take care of you. is he really the right man to raise a baby with if hes too ashamed or scared to tell people about his child? he is stepping back? he needs to be a man and step up or step out. seriously. tell someone in your family that you trust because you need their help right now. if you are keeping your baby you will need a source of income and somewhere to live. you want to give your baby the best in life. however should you wait until you find someone who can support you to have a baby? dump your cousin and move forward because he is holding you back. best of luck
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reader, bebo +, writes (27 December 2010):
bebo is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wanted the family to know but he dragged it saying let the good time come to tell them....and that's how it went till today....now that i want to keep this baby and want the family to know, he is stepping back....please guide me...would it be better to leave him and move my own way keeping my baby...
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reader, sailorsoldier  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 If you wanted to you could put your baby up for adoption instead of abortion. Thats what I'm going to do. But its your decision on what to do that really matters.
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reader, MrsTetzlaff +, writes (26 December 2010):
wow. you've got guts.
Dear, you need to put your panties back on and take a step back and look at the situation. Do you really want to be with your cousin and face the scrutiny that you may face when the relationship hits the fan? This day in age that kind of thing is very very wrong. But, there are a few cousins of mine I wouldn't mind hammering away with, so I cannot verbally abuse your situation. :-) You need to keep the baby and you need to MOVE!!!!!! Just a suggestion, but you don't really want this baby to grow up knowing that their parents are incestive, do you?? It could be very traumatizing for the baby. I'm just saying. Don't be selfish. Think of what the baby WILL have to go through. It is inevitable. God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): You have been together for 4 years, but you don't want to face the family what is the point of you two being together? If you want to keep your baby do so, don't let anyone push you into it, by the sound of it he won't be around though.
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