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writes:Hi, im Maria and im from utah, and im 14 almost 15 years old, and i think i might be pregnant. I don no what i should do only 3 people no that i might be pregnant there all my best friends, i told my boyfriend(well ex boyfriend now) that i might be pregnant but he doesn beleive me.I really dont no what i should do becuase if i tell my parents that im pregnant they would beat the crap out of me.. My family is really violent mostly my dad, so im really scared of what he would do or say if i told him.. My mom would probably be really mad and not talk to me anymore she might even kick me out of the house. I really need some help please can someone help me out, i was thinkin on gettin an abortion without my parents knowing anythin but im not sure if thats the right thing to do... Please someone answer this i need help.. i don what else to do.. :(
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 I know that this is a really tough situation.
What makes you think you are pregnant, first of all?
You need to get medical attention if there is any possibility you are pregnant, for your health and for the baby´s health. Babies whose mothers don´t get proper prenatal care can be born with terrible health problems, and your health could be in danger... please see a dr.
If you can´t tell your parents, please tell an ADULT that you trust. Do you have an uncle, granny, pastor, SOMEONE? I´m sure that someone will care for you.
I am really concerned about you. You say your home is violent and I sense that there is possible abuse. If you´re being abused, please tell an adult or contact Child Protective Services.
I hope everything works out for you. Remember, if you are pregnant, there´s always adoption.
Good luck. You WILL get through this. Please, please see a doctor.
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reader, sara'93  +, writes (28 December 2010):
wow...it's a tough one! Remember, it's your decision. I'm sure your mum and dad will be ok with it in a little while but if not, you must have another family member who you can talk to. If your bf doesn't belive you well he'll be shocked to see your tummy getting larger wont he lol. Of course it would be scary at your age if you decide to keep it. But if you don't keep it....well thats your decision obviously. Hope i helped! X
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