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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I wanted this online guy to respect me, but was it all just fun for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I need some help. Recently I started talking and flirting with this guy online and he lives about 3.5 hrs from me. He saw my pictures and thought I was hott but he didn't have any up. We talked for awhile and I was 'charmed' by his personality. He ...

After 7 years of online friendship we are going to meet, but now I am worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I've been talking to a guy online for 7 years, we'll call him Adam we talked pretty much constantly, I had a boyfriend for 5 of the years and I have a 11 month old little boy, me and my boyfriend split up because of problems between us and his anger ...

Should I send online boyfriend poem? Or wait till we meet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi, I met this guy a year ago online on a dating website. We're getting along so well. We are from the same country but he lives abroad! So we have the same cultural background and everything. At the beginning he used to call more than once each d...

I have noticed some changes in her, what could be the reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I met her in the internet since 10 months ago , we live so far away from each others , we clicked so fast , and we felt we should meet up , prior to that we felt love but we wanted to see if that's real or not , we met after 3 months of chatting in ...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

Did I make the right move or is it time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - This is the second time I have moved for a man to another state that I have met through the internet. It's a very complicated situation for me. I have a low self esteem and I am so insecure. My boyfriend has a 16 yr. old son that he sees every other ...

What would be your interpretation of this man and the possible motivations behind this behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - I have a good one that I found flipping through the various internet pages. In fact it is a context to a story I had read but yet poses some interesting fodder for all of you aunts if you would kindly oblige. What would be your intereptetation ...

BF claims he hasn't used his online dating account in over a year. Then how is it that it showed recent activity? Can there really be glitches like that? Could someone have used his account to log in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I have been exclusively seeing someone for about six months now. He treats me well, I see him everyday and talk on the phone with him everyday. We've said we both love each other and things seem to be going well. He told me that a long time...

2 dates and then these guys bolt! What is the deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I have been on-line dating on and off for the past year and 4 months. I’ve met 3 men in that time. Each time the same thing happens:- they are really enthusiastic about me. We meet and they are begging to meet me again - and then after the second ...

Is it right to want a relationship when you have a chronic illness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I hope you can help me, since several years I am in a strange situation. I have a chronic illness that allows me to do much less than other people. Actually I was severely affected for some years, mostly bedbound, now it improved but still I can do ...

Are these red flags? Do you think he's hiding something from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I could really use some advise and wise words about this guy I've been seeing. I met him online, we emailed back and forth for a week before meeting in person. I think everyone knows the dangers of online dating and the creeps out there, so I'...

Should I risk quitting my government job for a boyfriend who I haven't ever met in person?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. B...

If this guy who I met through an online dating site didn't like me, then why did he keep calling and texting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - I met a guy through an online dating site, but he lives in another state. For about two weeks, we talked on the phone everyday for hours at a time and texted and emailed each other throughout the day. He talked about moving to my state eventually ...

Am I smothering him too much with my words of love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so I know this is a little long and I suppose Im looking for opinions rather than answers. My boyfriend and I met on the internet and have fallen in love very quickly, however he is a very busy man, works many hours, evening and weekends etc. He ...

I want to see her again. How can I avoid coming on too strong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - I'm just looking for some guidance really. I met a girl over a dating website some time ago and we've been talking for a few months now. We finally had the chance to meet yesterday, so we went out and we seemed to have a very nice evening. We got ...

On our second date, I almost had an accident while driving her home. Did that scare her off or am I overreacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

22 June 2011 (M) - I started talking to this girl online and after a couple of weeks she gave me her number and wanted me to add her on facebook. For a little while after that we texted just about everyday and started talking about making plans to hang out. We finally ...

We live 700 miles apart, could this ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

22 June 2011 (M) - Um I don't know how to start this. I met this girl on an online chat website.. I'm sure everyone has heard of this online chat website. Anyhow we really like each other now. I tell her I love her all the time and we never run out of things to talk ...

Should I send him online pictures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I met this guy on the internet. At first I wasnt me in the pictures and they were another prettier girl. When I realized I started liking him I told him and apologized by an ecard. We were just friends but he was angry and demanded to see 5 pictures ...

I'm in Hon Kong and he is in Canada. I need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I met someone on a chat room in October 2010, we started go on Skype date a lot, it was very fun to talk to him, I knew he was the right one I wanted-we are so alike and we have got loads of interests in common. We def. are something more than ...

My relationship of 10 years turned into a LDR but there is this other girl now, are we moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - This is more complicated than it sounds.i have a gf of 10yrs,though we lost contact for 5yrs,we got in touch last year and since then its been a LDR.maybe insecurity and lovelorn is my problem,but am just not feeling it as i havent seen her in over ...

Is this a case of 'he's just not that into me'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - We'd flirt etc online and he told me he liked me. I liked him a lot too. He lives in the UK and I'm in the US. One day I wrote him a nice long email explaining how I feel about him and really liked him. I hinted that I wanted to be in a relationship ...

We started off on the wrong note. Does he want me back or is he just messing me about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - I met someone a couple of weeks ago on an internet date. As soon as I met him (and this wasn't all to do finding him physically attractive), I knew I liked him. I've been waiting a long time to feel chemistry with someone and I'd finally found it! ...

How can she say she likes me when she doesn't want to talk to me outside of the site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - I started talking to this girl for fun on a lesbian chat/non dating site. She would flirt and talk with me and we'd set up times to 'meet' everyday. She told me she liked me. However, she said she wanted to take things slow. I believe from wha...

Crush on Facebook

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

17 June 2011 (F) - How do you tell a person you like them through Facebook? Especially since you don't really know them and its been years since you last seen them (more like acquintances)?...

Was I wrong to use another guy's pictures when chatting to her? Or is she over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

17 June 2011 (M) - I had been talking to this girl for a few weeks just for fun and chatting with her. Initially I posted this other guys pictures. She got really upset and yelled at me and also removed me as her contact. From my understanding we flirted but ther...

I haven't dated anyone since boyfriend left me for an online girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

15 June 2011 (F) - I posted on here last month saying that my ex dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who lives in America, who he has never met in person !. My ex and i live in England. I kept hounding him at first, as i was upset, but then i started to get over ...

I want her to stop holding back and be interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

15 June 2011 (M) - Well I met this girl on a free dating website and we hit it off pretty well, we emailed everyday and after about a week she gave me her number and wanted to be friends on facebook. We both know what we are looking for in partners and she seems to ...

She had pictures of me on her nightstand! A little odd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - Awhile back I got to know a girl I met online who lived in an area that I was going to be moving to. We seemed to have a good repore and connection. Fast forward and when I moved we met and at about our 4th date she invited me to her house for a ...

Did he like me for who I am, or only for my pictures?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I joined a social site and it's not for dating or anything. I thought it would just be for fun and to see what it's like. I eventually met this guy I like. I realize now I should have told him right away. The girl I used is Beautiful like 10 or 11 ...

Meeting face to face for the first time......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - A person who I've been dating for a while, webcammed etc with is planning to finally come visit me for the first time. She's coming to Texas and we're trying to figure out how this will work. I am a lesbian and my mother doesn't approve but I ...

Embarrassed to admit to my friends that I'm into online dating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I have a question for those who have successfully used online dating and have found great matches and/or partners. I'm only 20, but finding boyfriends has always been difficult for me for a number of reasons, which I'll spare you from reading. On...

My on again off again love wants me to meet him and the lady he lives with. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

12 June 2011 (F) - I need some help and I've exhausted my friends who have no answers. This is long and for that I apologise. I meet this great guy online over a year ago (end of Dec '09). He's relocated to my country, but is from overseas. We have a f...

I fear karma and don't want to hurt the guy but what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

12 June 2011 (F) - I met this guy online ("roy")and he seemed cool but didn't want a relationship. Neither did I, was still so in love with my ex. Chemistry was good but I was a virgin and told him so. We played around, nothing serious. But then I met "jody" and ...

Does he seem to be a bit too controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

11 June 2011 (F) - Does this guy I talk to sound a bit controlling/overprotective? First of all we met online. He likes my pictures but said he felt some of them were too sexy and some of the dresses were too short. He said he prefers the more casual/cell phon...

He stopped communicating and I have no idea why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

11 June 2011 (F) - I am still confused on what to do..so here is my situation : i met this guy online. we been in a long distance relationship for 16months and we havent met in person yet.. we been planning to meet in person.. he been planning to come to my country ...

I seem to be asking all the questions with my FWB opportunity. Why does she not ask me anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

11 June 2011 (M) - I am a 23 year old guy that met a 50 year woman on the web who was looking for a sexual relationship. She had permission from her husband. In the first period, we talk maybe 3 weeks online. She seemed very interested and everything. We h...

I canceled my online subscription, Guy I am seein has not. At what point should we bring up being exclusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

11 June 2011 (?) - I need some help here. I am 45 yr old female. Met a 55 yr old male on an online dating site. We have been dating for 2 months. About a week ago I told him I was canceling my online dating account as I didn't want to pay for it any more and I am not ...

What do we have going? He doesn't know when he'll see me again. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

11 June 2011 (F) - I've been talking to a guy for months now and we haven't been too close ever since. He's busy with basketball and school. So i told him how i feel about me missing him and wanting to be in a relationship with him and reply saying this : " Look, idk ...

Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - Hey, So there is this guy I met over the internet and we mailed each other for quite some time until I asked him if we could meet, which we did. To sum it up it was wonderful for me and he said that he enjoyed the day, too. Problem is that he...

Are dating sites successful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - Hi guys. I wanted to know what you guys think about dating sites. I have never singed up on them because I was always tolled to be carefull of who I talk to online and to not get involved with ppl I have never met in persone. (witch is still great ...

Do I tell my parents about my online boyfriend coming to visit me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - Sorry, this may be a bit long. I have been talking to my boyfriend online for two and a half years, and we have been together for one year. I truly enjoy his company and love nothing better then spending time with him. We broke up awhile ago be...

Am I being used just to help this guy get off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4945 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - I haven't talked with my best friend in about a mouth and a half, maybe more. Since he's in the army I sent him encouraging messages through his facebook since he updates quite often, but...he never answers back. Now out of the blue he texted me and ...

How do I flirt with a very reserved man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

8 June 2011 (F) - Hi everyone ,can anyone give me some tips how to flirt with a very reserved man online ,also how can i tell if he likes me .He said i was a very nice person and i look good ,he asked me if i'm ok with emailing ,so i said yes ,he asks this question a ...

Which is worse, her cheating or my looking at her email?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

7 June 2011 (M) - Long story short, girl I was seeing I found out was having sexy liaisons on the Internet with a couple of guys she knows. They didn't have sex or were intimate (I don't think, anyway) but exchanged a bunch of messages like "I miss you" or computer ...

Shall I keep trying to get hold of him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) - Ok big help hear please peopel, Ive met this guy who i have yet to meet i have wrote about him on hear b4 about him sending a text saying how much he likes me etc Anyway we where ment to meet today but as i know hes worried about meeting m...

Does the fact that we haven't met mean he's not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4947 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for about a month. He has texted me every single day first, I have only texted him about a couple times first without him initiating it first. He has done most of the calling I have only called him a few times out ...

If he was not interested...then why would he keep contacting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) - 8 months ago I started chatting to a man on the internet. I am 23 he is 35. We have become good friends during that time and did admit our attraction to each other. At fisrt he would contact me almost every day, and then it slowly died down to a...

Did fate bring us back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

6 June 2011 (M) - 1st post. Here goes.....(deep breath) So in 2007 I registered on a website to meet women of my age. A random girl gave me a glowing (yet conservative) compliment and I proceeded to converse with her based on that. We spent ridiculous amo...

We met on line. But he's inconsistent. Is it him or is it me? I'm baffled by his attitudes.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

5 June 2011 (F) - I'm seeing this guy, it's been a month, we like each other and like to spend time together. we met online and on our first date he invited me to a work event and introduced me to his co-workers and boss, etc. So we agreed to take things slow and ...

Is it normal to be this in love without meeting someone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Help! for nearly a year i have been talking to a turkish guy online and i can honestly say that i really like him. Hes so lovely and although i have never met him in person, im sure i will like him. he is really like my dream man and he honestly ...