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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I started talking to this girl for fun on a lesbian chat/non dating site. She would flirt and talk with me and we'd set up times to 'meet' everyday. She told me she liked me.However, she said she wanted to take things slow. I believe from what I heard from some of her friends on the site she had met another girl on there awhile before me and they had dated. However the girl tried to hurt herself after the breakup. When I talked to her about going on cam she said it could make things too serious and personal and things happen too fast. I asked to talk with her on messenger or her email and she didn't seem interested in giving me that either. She once told me she'd rather be hurt than hurt meSo even though she says she likes me and flirts etc....it makes me wonder how much she truly likes and is interested in me if she doesn't seem to want to talk to me outside of the site.Also I'm not trying to be nosy but I wonder why she has talked to her friend on there about her issues/concerns with the other girl and not me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): Maybe she is just leading you on and is possibly dating/talking to other ppl
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (19 June 2011):
Because she's actually male? A friend of mine caught her own husband in one when she looked over his shoulder, the floor of their computer room being heavily carpeted so he didn't hear her enter. Unfortunately lots of people in lesbian chatrooms are men, as these inadequates feel it's the only way to get a woman to talk to them. Her behaviour in refusing to go on cam is generally a dead giveaway. Even a phone conversation is risky now that voice-altering software's so easy to download. Obviously this is only a possibility which you must investigate, and I hope for your sake I am wrong, but please take this into account and do a bit of detective work, keeping in mind some of her 'friends' may also be 'her' posting under a different name.
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