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writes:I am a 23 year old guy that met a 50 year woman on the web who was looking for a sexual relationship. She had permission from her husband.In the first period, we talk maybe 3 weeks online. She seemed very interested and everything. We had some sexual discussions too. When I asked her what kind of condom should I bring, should I wear a more provocative underwear, she replied that I sound good and everything but she thinks the distance and the age is just too much for her.I the second stage, after we broke contact, I emailed again after a month to revive the contact hoping to have a sexual relation with her. I told her that I wanted to have an online friend and she seemed very interesting and could need her advise.Now the question, although she is quite busy, in 9 out of 10 cases she has never asked me questions. I ask questions and she replies.What could the reason she does not ask me questions?What topics should discuss with her in order to win her trust and open her up to me?How should I continue to express my desire to make love to her?If I reply within a few hours after receiving her email, would that make me look "needy"? Should I instead reply after 2 days her email has arrived?What are some good topics to discuss with a 50-year old woman? She is a Taurus by the way.In total, we have sent around 40 emails.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): It's funny that you are saying that all you were looking for is a sexual relationship when it seems that you are interested in her in a deeper level... It seems that you are trying to connect with her psychologically and your romanticizing a relationship which is supposed to be only physical. Can't it be that you and her are in different places and want different things?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): She's not into you. You're coming across as desperate for her attention, and if she has any type of mothering instinct at all, she's giving you attention, maybe because she feels sorry for you. She's old enough to be your mother, and that is one of the reasons she's given you as to why she's uncomfortable with the situation.
Maybe she also doesn't actually have her husband's permission, and now she's having second thoughts about whether she should cheat on him.
Move on. Thank her for any advice she's given you, and say goodbye.
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