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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I haven't talked with my best friend in about a mouth and a half, maybe more. Since he's in the army I sent him encouraging messages through his facebook since he updates quite often, but...he never answers back. Now out of the blue he texted me and we caught up, but we ended up sexting, which we've done a few times in the past. I've never slept with him, he send me proof of his "state" and we go back and forth for awhile but the he passes out, since every time we do this is quite late and they wake up at the crack of dawn over there, but he doesn't text back at all. It's been two days and I haven't heard back. This is the second time he doesn't text back. I don't know what to think. Why do guys do think like this? why would he? help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Be very very gratefull it has not gone further and that you do not see him, he is a bit of a creep for doing this with you and does not even offer the decency of a hello.
He is in a different head space -certainly not one for having any kind of even semi valuable relationship.
Really you need to ask yourself why you are putting out this signal that it's okay to treat you this way and why you feel you can not find much better company with someone or people of good character and a respect towards you.
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