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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I've met some I really like, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Hi Guys, I've been online dating for a while now and have had lots of dates but - you know how it is - normally they aren't really what you're looking for. However, last week I had a date with this girl and it was truly amazing. She initially ma...

Her first On-Line guy. me. How can I convince her to take a chance with me in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I have been talking to this girl online for a while now. We talk everyday, we tell each other how much we are starting to care about each other and she says she crazy about me. I will be the first guy she's met online, the first issue is that she is ...

I've been talking online with a 30 year old woman who wants to go out with me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Hello there everyone i could use some advice. Ive been talking online with this woman she is 30 years old. We have been talking for about a month or so and do not live far away from each other. I have talked to her on webcam so i know she is who ...

How do I break it off with my online guy? I simply don't have time anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi all!! so basically i met this guy online. and we've been chatting lots for about 4 weeks now. i really like him and we get on well. and of course at some point we were hoping to meet up. but the thing is recently my circumstances at uni...

Family pressures made my boyfriend end our relationshp.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - can anyone tell me why in lebanon and the middle east there is a bad attitude towards an older woman with a younger man. is it the same throughout all of the middle east or mainly in lebanese society. my relationship of 2 yrs has ended because my ...

Does Online Dating work for men??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Hi all, So I have been trying to make sense of this... Does online dating really work for men? I ask this because I put up my profile on 2 sites (one famous paid site and one famous free site) and am very surprised to see absolutely no r...

Three questions for men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Three Questions to guys : 1.)Do men go out their way to make an ex/ or current girlfriend jealous? And if so, how? 2.)Why would a man in a 3 year relationship make an online Dating profile? 3.)What are the signs that a man is no longer ...

Am I just paranoid or do guys really get sidetracked and focused on these Facebook girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, got a slight issue and would love both girls and guys opinion on this. This guy that I'm seeing/dating at the moment, he's a model and he's ALWAYS adding hot, gorgeous random girls on Facebook in mass amounts (like 10 a day). then ...

My boss and I text each other, now his wife is furious at me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - This is a strange one I'm having mixed opinions about. Basically my boss is 20 years older than me, and married... and male also! However we text back and forth just silly jokes, general day to day stuff, and sometimes just to see how each other are ...

My friends say I am losing my dignity. How do I get over being rejected by him? I am beside myself with grief.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 31 and have guy issues. Oh yes...as always!!! i wake up with (Everyday) what feels like a knot in my stomach and feel like I'm about to be sick as reality of what has happened hits me. I thought I met the perfect guy and his very good lo...

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

His communication sometimes is tardy. Am I expecting too much from my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship. we see each other maybe once every few weeks. for the most part we text or skype sometimes. But seems like every time he is with his friends he takes hours to reply or sometimes doesn't even...

Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...

In love with a trucker I have never met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - This is going to sound crazy but I met an amazing man about 3 months ago playing poker on my phone through a live app. We have been talking and texting everyday since. The connection seems amazing. I feel like I have known him my entire life. Like ...

I'm broke and in debt, and have been offered money for sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I've been talking to a friend of a friend. He is 19 (I am 18) and we've never physically met. Recently he offered me £1000 to give him anal sex for two months. I REALLY need the money. I am broke and have a lot of debt to pay off. I've tried g...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

Am I right to be uneasy about his request that I strip on cam for him? .

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - well. i have know this guy as a good friends more than 2 years. he always compliment me on my hair and says you look good plus he keep saying don't cut them off. he lives far from me so finally i asked him to catch up soon on cam. I was surpr...

Am I just his text buddy who he occasionaly sees when it suits him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone this guy who I very occasionally have sex with ignores my texts and only texts me when he feels like it he says he forgets but I know that's not true anyway I got fed up with it when I found out he had gone on holiday and hadn't even...

Should I try for one more date with this guy? even though hé's been ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Ok so A guy who I was texting and meeting up with stopped texting me last week after he stood me up. now last night as I was with a few friends watching a film he texts me... I texted him back immaturey like "well " and " fine " he then texted me ...

Help me convince my parents to let me visit him for the summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy I love with all my heart. I live in Maryland and he is in California, we have been dating for almost a year now and it really bothers me that we are so far away, but since i love him so ...

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...

Can I believe him even though these sites tell a different story?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Really upset, i thought id found the man of my dreams now ive discovered him on fu##book and various other dating sites which were logged onto 2 weeks ago, the thing is we have been here before and he told me they were old sites which he couldn't ...

This girl stopped texting me! Did I make a mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - Yooo everyone... so, I have a small issue. I have been talking to this girl (through a dating website... i know...) and she is gorgeous. like seriously a goddess. I see myself as an attractive guy, but not on her level (if you get what i mean). I ...

How do I start a relationship online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - I want to have a partner via the internet, but I don't know how. I've seen alot of matches on the internet, but I don't know how to do to contact or make relation with them. I've been interested in some of them, I want to see them at their hometown, ...

I've fallen in love online. He's a college drop-out, an aspiring writer and musician, he never finishes his work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - I have...a very odd situation, but I guess everyone thinks that. I've fallen in love online. With someone about 6 and a half years older than me. The reality of the situation is that he's a college drop out who wants to make it as a writer and...

Is there anyone genuine on the internet?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - Has anybody met anyone genuine on the internet? I have met some really rude people and am beginning to wonder if it's me. Met one guy who sent me an email with bullet points saying why he didn't want to meet again. Another guy brought 3 con...

How can teens delay teen sex?on how to avoid early sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - Please provide advice for teens on how to avoid early sex There are many pressures on teens and everyone wants to feel like they are like every one else. And not be different from friends. And so many people think they are successful if they can be w...

Did I say the wrong thing and break this up? Or is his reaction the problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - i met this guy on plenty of fish coming up to a year in september we havent met yet but we do talk all the time via txt or phone, We have been meaning to meet but for various reasons, different jobs and place we live, it never seem to happen, ...

FB bane of my life. Do I trust him? Or just break up over his lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - ive been with this guy for 7 months and all we really seem to do is argue :/ .. he always adding girls on Facebook and i get really paranoid as to whether he talks to them. So one day me and my friend made a female on Facebook( i know that's w...

I need to hear the truth. Should I persist with him or am I being too hasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and I'm in a long distance relationship. I haven't had much experience before this relationship. My previous relationship (my first bf) lasted 2 months and was long distance as well. My current LDR has been going on for 2 years. He lives one ...

I lied to the guy online and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

17 August 2011 (F) - This is not a real dating issue, it's more like an issue that I have with myself, but I'd really appreciate it if you could take some time and help me out with this. I met a great guy online, some 5 months ago. We didn't meet on a dating website o...

I think I got involved with a liar, maybe even worse

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

15 August 2011 (F) - In June of this year, I met a man on craigslist. I answered his ad, and now I am kicking myself. This person claims to live in another state, but posted in ad in the city where I live, hoping that the woman he found would eventually move to where he ...

It started as a joke but things have changed

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

15 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys. so I have a problem and really need advice because its eating me up completely! so im 21 and im a student. and me and a friend were on an online dating website about a week ago just looking and we decided to make me a profile. I gave a f...

How can I deal with this online guy who seems to want nothing but sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - Okay so I met this guy online through a dating site, he seemed nice but never really spoke about himself much, which always bothered me, then we chatted online with web cam but he wouldn't let me hear his voice at first, later he told me he doesn't ...

Will I ALWAYS be single?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - I am 28 and I only had sex with one man (we had a short relationship when I was 23 - he was 50). He broke my heart very bad. I haven't been able to be in a relationship ever since, just online flirting which turned out it lead to nothing serious. ...

What's up with him? he'll compliment me then insult me three times over and will not 'hang out with me"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - This guy and I met online through a mutual friend. He gave me his number first and I gave him mine and for the past month we text and talk on the phone non stop. We have so much in common and I get the feeling he likes talking to me but when...

Why do people cheat? why be unfaithful? what's the payoff to be the "other woman"?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - I have a question for all the unfaithful and the homewreckers. Why did you cheat!?!? Or help someone cheat!?!? I see so many questions about cheating..and they're the cheaters!! Doesn't anyone know cheating is wrong? And the only acceptab...

Facebook Problem: Why is my boyfriend is chatty one day, quiet the next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a weird issue where, when I log onto Facebook, he somehow never notices I'm online. Especially in the evening, I'll say hello to him, and he'll just stay on for a few seconds then log off. It hurts me knowing he's online, we haven...

I found out my online lover is married and has a kid. How could I have been so trusting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I'm in a very complicated emotional situation right now. There is a guy i met online, I want to meet him but for its not possible for me until next year. He lives in another country. So we started talking every day, he was supporting me after a ...

Can I find out somehow if my b/f has joined an online hook up site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - When my bf looks at porn on the computer he is always sure to delete the history. I don't mind that he looks and masterbates as long as it doesn't take away from our sex life. But in the past he has been known to not tell me little things so when i ...

How can I know if this online guy is for real? Or married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) - hi i am new here, I am at my middle age, I want to share my recent experiences meeting a guy in online dating site, and i need some advice, thank you for taking your time to read my message. I opened an account in an online dating March this yea...

Does he deserve my love? Is he just playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) - hi everybody im 21 years old. first my story started since 8 months ago, i knew him from chattin website im and he is not from my country, we start chattin for minutes then he added me in him messenger account. he saw my pictures then direcly he ask ...

I like him but I'm not physically attracted to him, should I meet him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) - Hi again aunts and uncles. I gave online dating a try and so far its going quite well. Ive been talking to this guy who just seems so sweet and kind and he seems to really like me but the problem is i'm not attracted to him in the slightest but he ...

Do I try meeting someone in person or online?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

8 August 2011 (M) - Hi guys n gals, I have been entertaining the thought of internet dating since becomming single...my friend suggests i wait a while and just meet someone naturally, they think internet dating is a bad thing to do, its mistly destined to fail...

After 2 dates he left his dating profile up, how can I tell if he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Hey there i have been on 2 dates with this guy i met on a online dating site ,they went well ,had a laugh ,got lots in common .But he is still goes on the website ,how can i tell this guy fancies me ,he kissed me on my cheeck ,but he is a shy guy . ...

I got attracted to an online guy too fast and then he deleted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

8 August 2011 (M) - Hello dear cupiders have a problem and would really want some advice. Last friday, the curious me got the better of myself so I tried to go to some online gay chat sites. There I met tons of people ranging from oldies to guys who wants to do peop...

Why can't I forget about the one who treated me badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

5 August 2011 (F) - It's 2 in the morning and I'm wide awake thinking about a guy I shouldn't be thinking about. The logical/rational part of me knows this is ridiculous so i can't figure out why I can't stop thinking of him. I met him online almost a year ago. We t...

What's the point of meeting people online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I found myself frightful about the online datings and similar sites. Why can't men approach women face to face? This online dating sites acts as a barrier that keep them out of touch with reality. women get all dress up and wait, wait for them to ...

Should I meet him in real life? I'm not sure if he is the kind of guy I want.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm new here and I really want to thank you in advance for your advices. I'm kinda in a big problem because of my confused feelings. I'm sorry if this story is too long, I'm trying to shorten it as much as I can. I met this guy (DB) on ...