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writes:This is not a real dating issue, it's more like an issue that I have with myself, but I'd really appreciate it if you could take some time and help me out with this.I met a great guy online, some 5 months ago. We didn't meet on a dating website or anything like that, we met on a science related site and he sent me some of his projects, because I described myself as a genetics student. He's from France and I'm from Serbia. We exchanged our Skype usernames and even started video chatting. And we still do..The truth is, I'm not a 20 years old genetics student who lives a typical 'college life'. I'm a curious 15 year old who happens to look really cute and apparently attracts 27 years old men. And I really attract him. He sends me his poetry, he plays for me, we stay up all night video chatting about random things. And all this time, he thinks I'm someone else. Our conversations sometimes even go to the point where he suggests a vacation for the two of us. I feel really selfish, stupid and so immature for letting this happen. I don't know what to do...Please, don't judge me... I'm just a 15 years old brat and I hate myself enough already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): Bite the bullet and quickly, it is not right for him to think you are older. It is that simple. Do it fast like ripping off a band aid and if you have good parents then tell them what you have done so they can give you some more support. If your parents are not good (ie abusive) then tell a good friend that you can trust or a teacher.
It is not wise to spend that much time on a computer at your age.
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reader, TheChupaChump  +, writes (18 August 2011):
 Honesty is the best policy? I know its going to hella hard to say it but its like a freeing when you tell him. I'm 15 and i know its hard telling the truth trust me.
Suck it up giirl and trust me, its going to be hard but do it! Probaly skype is the best way to
'Whatever happens it happens for a reason, you just gotta wait for that reason to come'
Good Luck! x
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 August 2011):
 You should really tell him how old you actually are and see what happens then. With him being that old he will mostly likely end it there for legal and moral reasons. It has nothing to do with you but you are way better off meeting boys your own age or maybe a year or two older if you are looking for more maturity.
If you do truely care for him you will tell him before he gets into trouble with this.
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