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writes:Three Questions to guys : 1.)Do men go out their way to make an ex/ or current girlfriend jealous? And if so, how?2.)Why would a man in a 3 year relationship make an online Dating profile?3.)What are the signs that a man is no longer interested in a current relationship?Would Be A big help if i could get some insight to these! Thanks From BeeBee xXx
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (29 August 2011):
1.)Do men go out their way to make an ex/ or current girlfriend jealous? And if so, how?
Sometimes, but this is not a mature approach to relating to others. If a guy does something to make you jealous, rather than react in jealousy, it is often a good idea to let him know how you feel about his behaviour, and your thoughts on how it affects your relationship and feelings for him.
2.)Why would a man in a 3 year relationship make an online Dating profile?
To look for someone else, to cheat. Sometimes it is can just be to look at girls, seriously. It is highly inappropriate to create an online profile if you are in a relationship, and messaging someone could be considered cheating. Often people in longer term relationships like to look at what they are missing, but wouldn't seriously think of trying to find a new partner online, so sometimes it is more innocent than it looks, but more often I would consider it quite serious.
3.)What are the signs that a man is no longer interested in a current relationship?
It is hard to judge a man's level of interest on signs, or on behaviour, because those signs can be indications of something other than a lack of interest. For example, if he is not interested in sex, has become less affectionate, does fewer things for his gf, wants to spend less time with her, etc, these can all be signs that he has become less interested in the current relationship, but they could also be signs of something else instead, such as depression, sadness, stress, lack of sleep, lack of fitness, poor diet, or illness. Rather than judge signs, go for good old fashioned communication. Talk to him, have the difficult conversation you have been avoiding.
Would Be A big help if i could get some insight to these! Thanks From BeeBee xXx
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reader, soon567  +, writes (29 August 2011):
Sorry but your guy is missing someting at home. I doubt he's pushing you away although it obviously he looking for extra.
Your guy is actively searching more than a one night stand and i doubt he trying to make you jealous here. I think he doesnt want to be caught.
He made a profile to aid his search for his quest. He probably looking for a mistress type or someone he can be into sort of speaking. I really doubt he loves you from the heart, more like loves you as expected.
Read your first three question and you'd see the lost of intrests in you. Put a side this incident and really look at your relationship. Do you believe your partner loves you. Sex is more of an expression but not love. Do you really feel loved by him?
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (28 August 2011):
I may be female but I would still like to answer because the majority of my friends are male. 1) yes they do do this because some of them want to make the ex realise they have moved on or make current girlfriend "appreciate" what she has or feel insecure and work harder to keep him happy. 2) Two reasons, it could be that he is feeling a little lonely and wants to talk to new people online and maybe feel the thrill of being chased again or it could be that he wants to see what is out there and keep his options open and find a new love before leaving his current love.3) The signs are being distant, causing arguments, lieing, going out a lot more etc etc
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reader, Dreamland  +, writes (28 August 2011):
1) Some men with poor communication skills, of borderline personality disorders, might resort to this type of childish behavior. I personally have never done anything like that. If I don't feel right about something in a relationship, I'll just come out and say it to my girlfriend.2) Because he wants his cake and eat it too, or he wants to secure a solid love interest before he dumps his current girlfriend. In other words, he's too much of a pu**y to break it off and be on his own to find a new girlfriend. A little co-dependent. 3)Creates on-line profiles to meet other women; talks to ex-girlfriends that he hasn't gotten over; Takes you for granted;doesn't want to work at making the relationship work; hopes that you'll break it off because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy...etc
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