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writes:Yooo everyone... so, I have a small issue. I have been talking to this girl (through a dating website... i know...) and she is gorgeous. like seriously a goddess. I see myself as an attractive guy, but not on her level (if you get what i mean). I know this chick is a legitimate person because i have talked to her through other means instead of the site itself. She hit me up saying she wanted to chill, gave me her number, and told me to text her on Tuesday to get the address. I told her that i dont have a phone right now but ill contact her. she says ok, and we didnt talk for about a day.2 days later, i get my phone and text her just to try and start a convo, even though it was a couple days early. it seems like i texted her unexpectedly, because the conversation didnt have any "body" to it. she wasnt too enthusiastic to talk. After a few texts in, I replied to a text she sent me, and recieved no response. My response was kinda "unenthusiastic", but i was hoping she would elaborate from it. (I was basically asking all the questions)Some questions: (1) Why would a girl this beautiful go for a guy like me, especially through a dating website? She could get any guy she wants (my profile does say i'm a nice guy though) (2) What do i do about the dead text? Should I have even texted her early? Even though she was interested in me, does the no response mean she isnt interested anymore? (3) Should i text her or call her on Tuesday to meet up? Or neither?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 Dude, chill. Text her on Tuesday when you're supposed to and meet up with her. Until then, take a deep breath and chill. The girl likes you, otherwise she wouldn't have asked to hang out. Does she need a better reason? Maybe you were a bit too early with texting her, but come on... should it matter? Just go through with the plan and stop being so nervous, you already know she likes you, and if you like her in a genuine way and NOT for her looks alone, you'll be fine.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (22 August 2011):
Keep communicating at a normal, steady pace and don't be afraid to.
As far as her wanting you, you can't ever be sure why.
Let me tell you, I had once dated a rich woman when I did not even have a car. I have dated women significantly older and significantly younger. I dated attractive women, ugly, thin, fat. Who knows what they want. All you can be certain of is they want you and don't look a gift horse in the mouth and don't look at yourself as unworthy.
You may have something that other guys in "her league" lack.
Text her on Tuesday to get the address like she asked.
Don't worry about the dead text.
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