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writes:When my bf looks at porn on the computer he is always sure to delete the history. I don't mind that he looks and masterbates as long as it doesn't take away from our sex life. But in the past he has been known to not tell me little things so when i find out it hurts my feelings and makes me feel like he may have bigger things to hide. So now i'm starting to think maybe hes a member of those online hook up type sites. I dont know when he would have time to actually hook up with somebody and don't actually think he would cheat on me. I'm just wonder if he has actually went as far as joining such sites. Is there any way i can find out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question janniepeg thanks that helps. I have tendencies to worry to much and look to much into things.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 August 2011):
 Yes there is. Exactly I don't know how. It's called a cookie tracker software. You have to insert it in his computer and you will see everything he sees on your computer, even chats.
I highly discourage you from doing this. Some one did it to me and I felt a betrayal of privacy.
If there is no reason why you think he's going to cheat, then stop making a problem out of nothing. It seems like your sex life is very important to you and you want it to be passionate, and you are open minded. So I don't think why he needs more than that and screw the relationship up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe doesn't delete the cookies, just the history. I know he uses youporn which has ads for dating sites so they show up on the cookies I just don't know how to tel if he actually visits the site. I've never understood why he deletes the history. We had some issues a few months ago where he was masterbating to porn almost daily and we were barley having sex. Things have been better since we discussed the issue and far as I know he only does it somewhere between 1 and 3 times a week and our sex life has gotten back to normal for the most part.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (11 August 2011):
Don't even bother investigating. If you can't trust him its over.
I mean really, if your OK with his pornography/masturbation (you are like 1 out of a million, by the way) then why does he have to delete his history?
How do you know he deletes it?
By the way, I can understand your suspicion. Cyber usually leads to real, one reason why women don't tolerate these things from their men.
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