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writes:my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship. we see each other maybe once every few weeks. for the most part we text or skype sometimes. But seems like every time he is with his friends he takes hours to reply or sometimes doesn't even reply. i find that extremely irritating because when I'm with my friends i do not do that to him. i have tried talking to him about it and he doesn't seem to get it. it doesn't bother me that hes with his friends, but i don't know what to think. i trust him so I'm not worried hes doing something he shouldn't but why do guys do that? it makes me feel as if his friends are more important. I'm not asking him to make me the center of his world but a courtesy text back saying hes busy or a simple reply would do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): My LDR does this, and although it is irritating and asking for a simple I'm busy would be nice, I have just come to accept that this is how guys are. Don't worry about it, it's no big deal really. Just find a way to accept that it's just his way, he loves you and that is the only important thing. No man would be in LDR if he didn'y love the woman right?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 I'm on the side of your BF. You can't ditch your friends just to be on time to connect with your LDR.
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