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writes: Hey everyone, got a slight issue and would love both girls and guys opinion on this. This guy that I'm seeing/dating at the moment, he's a model and he's ALWAYS adding hot, gorgeous random girls on Facebook in mass amounts (like 10 a day). then he goes and 'likes' all their profile pictures with additional comments telling them how sexy/gorgeous/stunning they are. In return, they crawl all over his pictures and updates with similar crap.I get insecure as I'm not a size 6 bikini model with fake boobs, and when ask him who these girls are, he gets offended just tells me not to he never talks to or sees them in person, and his excuse that "they add him and he can't help that" and his photo comments mean "nothing"Am I just paranoid or do guys really get sidetracked and focussed on these Facebook girls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): He's an attention whore basically. If it were me, i'd move on to a guy who respected me and out relationship.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 He's getting off on their attention. They may add him, but he can turn them down. He stokes things by offering inappropriate attention to them with the "sexy, gorgeous, etc" comments.
You're not paranoid, but you'll always be second place to his massive ego, and the fact that he gets offended at you for calling him out on it means that your relationship will never work, as he does not respect you. You don't have to put up with that behavior, and he isn't going to change for you.
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reader, Heartbroken77  +, writes (28 August 2011):
Thats not a good sign. He has no care about how you feel and him adding random girls and commenting on them is more important to him than making you feel special. You should think about your relationship.
See I am in a situation which is a bit similar to yours but different because the guy i was with added random girls as well and denied adding them as the one recently got added by magic (sarcasm)..Anyways I have hard time letting go of him and I feel you would also find it difficult to let go especially with all the love invested in him. What your guy is doing is not a good thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): "they add him and he can't help that" - ever heard of the decline button?
I think this guy likes the attention that comes with being a model. Thing is, he needs to realise that these girls are only adding him because of how he looks. So to answer your question - yes, guys can get sidetracked because of the attention.
Maybe you could mention that the comments that he leaves on the girls images are perhaps a little inappropriate at times? How would he feel if you added and commented like that on other guys pages?
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