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female
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41-50,
*m2011
writes:Hey there i have been on 2 dates with this guy i met on a online dating site ,they went well ,had a laugh ,got lots in common .But he is still goes on the website ,how can i tell this guy fancies me ,he kissed me on my cheeck ,but he is a shy guy . thanks
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 If he likes you, he will ask you out again and spend time with you.
Two dates is not enough time to decide if you want to be exclusive. Do not take it as a negative thing.
He should see other people. You should too.
The only reason that dating profile should come down is when you choose to be exclusive. (Let him initiate that conversation).
In the meanwhile, you are free to date who you like. Dating is having a good time and getting to know people that you want to be in an exclusive relationship with all the benefits of commitment, sex, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): 2 dates IS NOT a relationship. He will feel extremely pressured if you take your profile down or ask him to at this point. There is no way either of you should be taking yourself off the market after 2 dates.
Just get to know him and if he keeps asking you out it's a very good sign. Don't bring up commitment or exclusivity and whatever you do, don't have sex with him until he mentions taking his and your profile down. Assume he's dating others until then and you should be too!
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Sorry meant to say '2 dates' :)
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reader, Lexie88 +, writes (8 August 2011):
It'll take longer than 2 days before he takes his profile off the website. You shouldn't be too quick to take off yours either. You need to get to know him better, see what sort of person he is. I think he's doing the same thing.
If you're worried that he may also be seeing other women, well he may be. That's why he's online, seeing what's out there, seeing who's a good fit for him.
Take your time, don't rush things. If he finds someone else, so be it. Just don't ruin things by expecting him to remove his profile after 2 dates.
How do you know if he likes you? Time will tell.
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