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writes: I am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy I love with all my heart. I live in Maryland and he is in California, we have been dating for almost a year now and it really bothers me that we are so far away, but since i love him so much im not going to give up. He is 17 and im 15, but believe it or not we are only 1 year apart, my birthday is late in the year and his is earlier in the year so it gives off the illusion that he is 3 years older than me. my parents do know about him, but they don't know all the details. i told them that we went to school together so they wont think i hooked up with a guy i didn't know i hope i gave enough background infook, so my question is How do i convince my parents to let me visit him for the summer?
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (26 August 2011):
If you were my daughter, I'd insist on meeting his parents (and him, of course). I would want to know their attitudes about premarital sex. I would want to know just how closely you were going to be supervised.
I suppose it would be remotely possible that I'd let this happen, if I really thought his parents would be supervising you intensely closely for the entire time. But really the easier answer would be 'no way in hell'. Sorry hun, but it's a bad idea.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 August 2011):
 So you lied about him to your parents and then expect them to let you fly across the country to be with him? Honey, you are 15.
I have 3 daughters and no amount of "luv" would let me "let" them do such a thing. Now if HE came to YOUR parents home and they got to meet him face to face, who knows down the road. They are your parents and want to keep you safe.
What does his parents think of having his 15 yo girlfriend come visit?
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