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writes:well. i have know this guy as a good friends more than 2 years.he always compliment me on my hair and says you look good plus he keep saying don't cut them off. he lives far from me so finally i asked him to catch up soon on cam. I was surprised because he asked me to strip on cam. at the time i was thinking he was joking but he asked me the same thing again the next few days and he keep saying that i look hot.i don't want to break our friendship because this matter but i don't feel good around him Reply to this Question
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reader, sean lew  +, writes (31 August 2011):
I just signed up to this site
So I'm a little with my answer,but I hope I'm not to late. Don't do it. Ask yourself this. Do I want a video of me posted all over the web? No. You seem like a nice girl. Don't get your feeling hurt. Don't do it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 It's not a friendship dear you, he's asking you for free porn. A "friend" wouldn't be asking his friends to make a porn for him or strip for him. Ask him why he wants to see you naked. If he says "because you're hot" that means he wants to jerk off to you. In other words = he doesn't see you as a friend, he sees you as his playboy bunny.
Next time he asks tell him to go buy a magazine or hit a strip club, because you're not a whore, stripper, or prostitute.
Plus, he'll probably record it and spread it online and before you know it you'll be on "amateur strip tease" pages all over the world. Don't do it. The "friend" of yours is a pervert.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 Don't ever, ever do such a thing. And his asking tells you a lot about the kind of person he is. Not the kind you should have for a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): Hello. He is being sleazy and trying to get you out of your clothes. That's not nice and actually insulting to you. Tell him you are not that type of person and he is not to ask again. If you lose his 'friendship' because of your refusal to take your clothes off, then that proves he was only interested in seeing you naked and not interested in you as a person. He can't have a real bond or connection with you. If he did, he would know you would be uncomfortable with such a request, he would respect you and he would not pressure you to behave like a stripper! He really is requesting this purely for sleazy reasons and once you have done it, he will probably go quiet and who knows where footage of you stripping will end up. He can record it all, digitally meddle with the footage, share it on the internet. Pretty much do as he likes with it. Don't be tempted.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (26 August 2011):
There are websites devoted to videos of 'ex' girlfriends who have stripped on camera. That's where your images are destined to be if you agree to this. No quality guy would ever ask you to do this.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 August 2011):
 I would tell him straight out that you feel uncomfortable iwth him asking about th stripping. If he doesn't stop asking, I would stop talking to him.
If you don't feel good around him, you don't need him in your life. He will just fill you with negative energy.
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